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Aroused Way Too Much :(

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kayla1865
kayla1865

This is a bit embarrassing, but here goes... I am a female (18, going on 19), and I'm constantly turned on. I usually, can't go a day without Masturbating. If I withhold from it, I continue to get more aroused and wet, half the time. I'm not sure what to do. My boyfriend loves sex too, but I'm beginning to believe he has a lower sex drive than I do. I want it more often than he does, for sure. I'm fact, I'd be happy to have sex 1-3 time's a day. rolleyes

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  • matt_86983
    matt_86983 kayla1865

    Posted

    Half your boyfriends luck. I don't think many men would complain. Sadly, my other half has not let me near her in 3 years. I would gladly swap problems with your boyfriend. You are not weird. You are normal. 
    • kayla1865
      kayla1865 matt_86983

      Posted

      I mean, I'm around him a lot. I know that he watches porn sometimes, but he's not obsessed with it. He only watches it, occasionally. I've masturbated 2 time's already tonight. Usually, I don't do it more than 3 time's a day (that's when I'm ovulating).. *Sighs* There's plenty of times where he's pushed my hand away when I'm trying to come on to him. He told me once that I should go for it, when I want to do stuff, but half the time, he doesn't want to when I want to..
    • matt_86983
      matt_86983 kayla1865

      Posted

      He is crazy. Nearly all men complain about how their other halves aren't interested. Yet you are alive in every way. Maybe he just likes it a different way or would like to try something new. Role play can be very sexy if he is flatlining a bit. Most men are like you. Probably worse in fact. It is on their mind every other second. And the world is full of beautiful women..a mans life is too full of distractions.
    • kayla1865
      kayla1865 matt_86983

      Posted

      I've role played as Red Riding Hood.. He LOVED that, a lot. I don't know. But I'm gonna buy a toy, so... XD
    • cartercali
      cartercali matt_86983

      Posted

      If your wife / girlfriend hasn't had sex with you in that long somebody else HAS to be getting it
    • matt_86983
      matt_86983 cartercali

      Posted

      She has depression and the drugs used to treat it have wiped-out her libido. She genuinely doesn't want it. That puts a married relationship in the toilet. There really isn't long left to reverse course from here sadly. I am not able to go without being with my wife forever. No man can.
    • cartercali
      cartercali matt_86983

      Posted

      so since your wife cant have sex anymore you are planning are divorcing her ? 

      how long have you guys been married ? not trying to get all in your personal business or anything but i thought it was for better or for worse ??

    • kayla1865
      kayla1865 matt_86983

      Posted

      I have depression too, and am afraid of going on any meds for it.
  • Misskiss
    Misskiss kayla1865

    Posted

    I'm the exact same way. My sex drive is higher than my boyfriends, which kinda sucks sometimes but what can a person do...sounds like a normal situation to me.
  • cartercali
    cartercali kayla1865

    Posted

    I know exactly where you are coming from ..

    I have the same problem

    Me and my boyfriend would have sex 4/5 times a day when we first got together .. We use to have sex so much my vagina would swell up and I would have to ice it down ...

    He doesn't like to have sex as often but I do and I'll be in the mood and he won't .. And even if I do something to turn him on 9/10 I won't get to cum lol

    A sex toy is very much needed ..,

    I feel like my sex drive is too high for any man !!

    I feel like my boyfriend (ex now) got tired of me and maybe he wanted something new..don't feel bad you are not alone in this !!

    • kayla1865
      kayla1865 cartercali

      Posted

      He usually just pushes my hand away, or when he's in bed he'll turn away from me. It really sucks. I love having sex with him.
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