Mirtazipine, tiredness etc
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Hi Everyone,
My fiance has been on Mirtazapine for 2 weeks and is sleeping 15+ hours a day (only awake to go to work). The other thing is that when he is awake he seems to have lost interest in 'us'; he says he loves me and is just completely exhausted and, obviously, I'm not about to hastle him over it but just wondered if anyone else has experienced any loss of loving feeling while on this or is it just tiredness? I'm not talking about sex - which is pretty much on hold anyway - it's the loss of loving, cuddles etc. It isn't the end of the world if it passes eventually but I would be devastated if I lost this lovely, loving man because of a drug.
Is it still within the bounds of normality to be this tired after 2 weeks as most sites seem to say that it subsides after the first week? I hate seeing him so exhausted all the time.
Many thanks for taking the time to read this.
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I was prescribed this drug for depression/anxiety and yes i got a great sleep, BUT i was so out of it, i was having conversations with people and not remembering what i was talking about or doing from one day to the next ! it was awful. I have a 4yr old daughter so obviously i couldnt handle feeling like that. I stuck it out for 5 weeks then phoned my doc in tears, to take me off it.
I am now on venlafaxine, for bout a month now, and the difference is AMAZING !!! honestly get your hubby off that mitrazapine soon as poss. i felt better 2 days after stopping it.
good luck babe
best wishes
amanda x :shock:
sue22
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julieann1967
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Edna013 julieann1967
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I'm exactly the same, I find it hard just to walk. I feel so lethargic. I feel worse in myself as well. All I want to do is eat and sleep. I never found my anxiety a major issue but now I can't even go to the shops. I went into town the other day and had to leave because of my anxiety. I'm starting to feel like I want to give up on my battle
suemarine Edna013
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I agree with you Edna about finding it hard to walk, feelng lethargic and wanting to eat and sleep.
I'm thinking about coming off it. I'm on 15mg at the moment. This is my 3rd week of being on it.
ColinB
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suey58
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I'm just starting to feel anxiety and depression coming back again, doing a bit of research to see if venlafaxine still the best for me, or if I should try something else - find gps know not much more than me about them - the last time I went to mine she just looked on this site to find a medicine (blood pressure I think), I could have done that myself!
Hope you feeling better soon - unfortunately as a long term depressive these things tend to mimic remission - but you do get better over time at handling it.
xxx:roll:
rach23110
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ashimrana84 Guest
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If tiredness can rip out love I won't say it is love(deep love ) I had bn depressed for over 13 yrs and my love still remain the same , whether I would b happy or not I simply don't care I give as much I can and I enjoy that , despite of this I'm having clinical depression which I failed to get above , your fiancé is not to blame , in today's world if someone is healthy only then he is capable to spread the relationship , a simple unpleasant feeling is enough to spoil the readymade relation
Your fiancé is in trouble just help him out , don't expect , let the medication work and provide as much as positive environment as you can
Soon everything will be alright
dee70426 Guest
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3 weeks I've been on it I'm so tired feeling drowsy all day I'm sleeping through night and through day when I'm not working all I can say is it made me so numb inside I couldn't care about anything or anyone I didn't see my partner for 9 days and totally lost interest in even speaking or texting him I've decided this drug is not for me it's made me feel worse and so detached from anything and anyone but struggling to get in to doctors also in 3 weeks I've gained nearly half a stone