Confirmed Scoliosis
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Hi all - my 13 year old daughter had her first specialist appointment yesterday and had confirmation that her curved spine is scoliosis. Her specialist has asked for an MRI and further x-rays as he feels it is measuring more like 65 degrees (was only 48 degrees two months ago) and so he delivers the news she needs surgery to correct her spine. The family are in shock, we thought braces for a while and she would be ok - but not surgery.
Is there anyone else about to go through surgery or had surgery that could could share their stories with us - we are afraid surgery may go wrong and if scoliosis is not life threatening, what will the implications be if she decides not to have the surgery? Just wanted some reassurance that the benefits of surgery will outweigh the risks.
Many thanks
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rebecca16468 gcorry3
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I wouldn't be so afraid although it's a big operation the outcome outweighs the risks 100%. I had the surgery 7 years ago I was 14 at the time for myself and my parents it was quite daunting we had never even heard of scoliosis.
The doctors have to make you aware of the risks but theres very little chances of them ever happening. I remember being sat there and being told I could be blind, disabled etc. not really what you want to hear at 14 years old. But its policy that they tell you these things there just doing there jobs.
I don't know if you can see the curve in your daughters back? but mine started to push on to one of my hips which made it stick out. Looked like I was walking to one side. Eventually it would of just started to crush into other bones and who knew what complications that could of led too.
But honestly hand on my heart can tell you that you shouldnt be so worried. Looking at me now you wouldn't have a clue that I've got two metal rods and a millon screws in my back. It doesn't limit you from doing anything I remember walking 3 days after surgery and being home within the week. The recovery depends on the person.
Hope this helps a little on your daughters decision
If theres anything else you'd like to ask feel free
gcorry3 rebecca16468
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Thank you x
BizzieIzzie gcorry3
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Unlike Rebecca below, I have not yet had the surgery, but, like your daughter I have been advised to have it and have now accepted.
My decision is based around the pros that it can give me - the curve will be reduced and stabilised, meaning that the chace of her scoliosis ever becoming a problem again is very low - this also means that her pain (if she has any now) should also subside and it should also prevent her getting any serious pain as an adult.
Another reason to accept of mine was due to my obvious postural abnormality - I have a large trunk shift and so I am very self-consious of how I look, especially when people stare at me oddly (I am 15yrs old, and so this is of great discomfort to me).
But of course in surgeries like this, there will be possible complications, The chances of any of these happening are incredibly low - and I know that some of them are hard to hear about, but the doctors have to tell you, and you have to make an informed decision for yourself. For me, I have faith in my surgeon and in the stats - less than 1% of people get any of thee problems!
I wish you al the luck in the world for the coming decision ahead, and please feel free to tell your daughter that she can contact me at anytime, as we are of very similar ages and I really would like to help in anyway that I can!
Izzie xxx
gcorry3 BizzieIzzie
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haig_42093 BizzieIzzie
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Hope this dose not sound rude but on what degree was your curve.
i am thinking about looking into having the surgery but am not sure if i am able because of the degree. I am also in great discomfort and pain with this and was wondering if in your consultations they had said why this would be.
Thanks Haig x
BizzieIzzie haig_42093
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alexis_a_5 gcorry3
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Alexis
traceyjc gcorry3
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mandy90473 gcorry3
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That said, there are alternatives to surgery - look up the Schroth Method which is now the treatment of choice for scoliosis in Germany, especially in young people. It requires huge commitment - at least half an hour exercise every day and I don't know how successful it is for large curves, though I do know the best time to start the treatment is when you are young. There is a dediated clinic in London called the SOSsoliosis clinic and a practitioner in Tetbury, Glos. I am on day 4 of a 5-day course with the tetbury clinic and will report back in a while - my curve is not as great as your daughter's but I have 35 years of bad posture and bad habits to undo, which your daughter won't. If you really don't want the surergy it might be worth getting an assessment with one of these, but the best people to advise you are probably those who have had the surgery. Hope this helps and good luck.
Mumb gcorry3
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