My gay friend has kissed me help!!
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Basically I went out on a night out with some friends and I have a friend who's a guy I work with and he is gay ive known him for nearly 4 years now and we went to meet him at a gay club and all night he was snogging me telling me I was beautiful holding my hand all night and I can't get my head around it at all! We have a great friendship and he is very attractive but in my head im thinking he's meant to be gay!! If anyone can help me this would be so helpful!
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jmcg2014 april66960
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Yeah he sounds like a real catch. Peoples sexuality doesn't change with alcohol, so he's either a liar or hes being manipulative. Either way you probably don't need that in your life. Forget about it and move on.
wayne1962 april66960
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Hi April - perhaps he's bisexual. I wonder if there have been any other demonstrations of affection by him toward you in the past 4 years? How was he after the event? Embarrassed? Apologetic? Or did his affection continue? You may need to sit him down and bring the event into the open and ask for an explanation.
april66960 wayne1962
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He always jokes at work with me and says I'm his wife and it's like he's married because we always bicker with eachother. We've been texting since like normal but ive seen him today for the first time since and we just said hi but I feel so awkward and confused by it all! My head is completely mashed by it all
jmcg2014 april66960
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Theres no need for your head to be mashed to be honest,its really obvious that your being played. Maybe you don't want to think that's true, but that's how it seems. The only question is if your ok with being played, if you are then youve nothing to lose, if not then its really up to you to confront him and ask him what he's playing at or simply walk away. Something tells me you won't do either however, I fear you'll be the one hurt from this, not him