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paul67642
paul67642

what is the point of having counselling because of my girlfriend's sister and daughter trying to turn my son back on me so there for i should take my life right now

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  • fee25
    fee25 paul67642

    Posted

    The point of the counselling is to get to a place mentally where you feel better in yourself and then can get your son back. Do it for yourself and for your son. 
    • paul67642
      paul67642 fee25

      Posted

      why when my gf family are trying to turn his back on me all i have to do is swallow all my Diazepam and thats it
  • nick34171
    nick34171 paul67642

    Posted

    Hi Paul, whatever they are doing is just out of hurt, they are being ridiculous in trying to upset things between you and your boy. Counselling might help you deal with the negativity, as well as the passing of your gf. Try to have a coffee with your son, explain there's alot of upset feelings but he shouldn't take what they say seriously or acknowledge it at all. Give the counselling a go, you never know it could really help. I'm where your at counselling wise. The beginning. Go into it with an open mind, hang in there let me know how you get on, Nick.
    • paul67642
      paul67642 nick34171

      Posted

      i want today for my counselling told them what she said and it wasnt nice what they said about it and i am getting a soclie worker in with what is going on
    • nick34171
      nick34171 paul67642

      Posted

      Sorry Paul I got confused. Did you mean what they said at counselling wasn't nice what they said? You got a social worker? Hopefully they'll look out for you.
    • paul67642
      paul67642 nick34171

      Posted

      no sorry counselling want ok in a bit but when i said what her sister said about getting my son of me they were not happy and yes am getting a social worker now working with me and matthew my son
    • nick34171
      nick34171 paul67642

      Posted

      Oh that's great news about the social worker for you and your son, keeping my fingers crossed for you Paul, Nick.
    • paul67642
      paul67642 nick34171

      Posted

      thank you nick so much for talking to me it means a lot to me and my son that there is someone out there who cares about people
    • hypercat
      hypercat paul67642

      Posted

      Hi Paul if you are looking after your son properly there is no court in the land who will take him away from you.   His father,  you,  has far more rights to him than your sister.   Is there something you are not telling us?  x
    • paul67642
      paul67642 hypercat

      Posted

      its not my sister its her sister because i'm not in work but i have a social worker on with me
    • audrey96558
      audrey96558 paul67642

      Posted

      Not working is not a crime and not grounds for anyone taking your son.

      Keep up with the counselling I'm sure it will help in time.

      The social worker seems like a very positive step to me, they will be your advocate and very well versed in situations such as this.

      I'm sure with the support of your counsellor and social worker you can get yourself to a more positive, secure place in relation to your son.

      Try and keep calm and keep in touch with the professionals who are there to help you.

      Take care my lovely, thinking of you xxx

    • audrey96558
      audrey96558 paul67642

      Posted

      That's kind, it's always nice to know you are keeping safe and keeping on.

      You obviously love your son so much, it's heartwarming to see.

      You carry on doing the best you can my lovely, and know we are all here for you, supporting you, wishing you all the best in the world.

      xxxx

    • paul67642
      paul67642 audrey96558

      Posted

      i do love him but if he dose go i will take my own life sorry for saying that but you all know what mean
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