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So im back again. Im 19 and waiting to go in for a thr and reconstruction which will be my 11th op. Living with what iv got has always been difficult. During school i was always bullied for having a very serious limp which left me feeling self concious about myself. I also find it difficult to go out in public and try shoes on because i cant put left shoes on on my own which means someone has to help me, people always look at me as if im stuoid. But now my pain is getting worse and being unemployed and in pain gets on top of me. Also got some bad news about a pet today which doesnt help. Does anyone else feel down a lot because kf similar things?
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Hailea sarah1996
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Sorry you are feeling down. Yes I feel down most days because of the constant pain of my right hip. I have had to have two of my dogs put to sleep in the last 8 months so I understand the pain of bad news with pets too. I also think because it is now headding towards winter and the miserable weather. I havn't even been able to go out for weeks so that doesn't help either.
I am sorry you were bullied
I was bullied at school because I was the tallest iand oldest in my class. I hate bullies. When one started on my son I got the police involved. You have rights against bullying in the work place it should be the same for kids at school.
Problem is your still miserable for a while after you have had the op too.
It is a no win situation till you get your life back.
sarah1996 Hailea
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sarah1996
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Hailea sarah1996
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It was time for them to go they were ill and there zest for life had gone. They were very old. I klnow when it is time to let them go as much as it hurts I am not one of thosae peoiple that will fight to try and keep them going.
sarah1996 Hailea
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Hailea sarah1996
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I also have a lizard. I have a leopard geko and I rescued him from a pet shop that was closing down. Had him over 20 years now and he is still going strong.
Good luck I really hope it is nothing too bad.
sarah1996 Hailea
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Hailea sarah1996
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glad she is ok hope the meds work. Looking into getting a camelion some time soonÂ
sarah1996 Hailea
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marilyn_92910 sarah1996
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sarah1996 marilyn_92910
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cathie38426 sarah1996
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write about it all.You will be nervous before your operation,
which is a big strain. Things will get better, do you have any
supportive friends or relatives? You could keep a notebook and
write down anything which you feel has helped, like joining this
forum, or a helpful phrase. Let us know how you are doing,
love Cathie
sarah1996 cathie38426
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cathie38426 sarah1996
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the 2nd 7 weeks ago. Let your supporters help, don't
be proud. Tell the hospital staff what you feel, pain,fear,
anger.. Don't hotel it up. Re negative things, I am reading
about how negative emotions can strengthen you.
love Cathie,
ps Have you started your positive thoughts page yet, you
could share with us on the forum.
sarah1996 cathie38426
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cathie38426 sarah1996
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both are ok. I wasn't asked either time. I was in
hospital in Portugal each time.
Cathie
sarah1996 cathie38426
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