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cara06851
cara06851

I can't keep anything down can't deal with this pain just wishing deyhrastion would kill me aready only day 2 unable to keep anything down but I don't want this life anymore just lying in bed crying in sever pain that can't never get control of was in a and e yesterday because of it and surgical changed there mind one minute surgon telling me get me in fluids and to the the ward next they are phoning down saying I can go home a and e doctor said if I can't cope with the pain can come back down but what's the point anymore

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  • hunbas
    hunbas cara06851

    Posted

    I'm so sorry you are going through this pain. I know it's very very hard. I cannot relate with the pain you have.

    The only thing I can say is don't give up and be strong. I'm sure one day they will find the cure to your illness you just need to wait. Don't lose hope!

    • cara06851
      cara06851 hunbas

      Posted

      Thanks for reply hunbas

      They have gave up done every test possible pain killers don't help can't even keep liquids down been 5 years like this

    • hunbas
      hunbas cara06851

      Posted

      I'm so sorry....

      I wish I could have helped you....

      Good luck

    • cara06851
      cara06851 hunbas

      Posted

      Thank you hunbas I know myself I need to get fluids through the vain because this is my health but not going back down as don't see the point in trying to get help anymore

  • g.90572
    g.90572 cara06851

    Posted

    Try an all liquid diet including nutrition drinks
  • steven43881
    steven43881 cara06851

    Posted

    I can relate to your pain, Hon. I have something called chronic Ptostatitis and I have been in pain now for the last 61/2 years. The Drs. don't no what to do and they have no answers. In other words the medical profession is very cold !! I wish I could help you, but I too don't know what to do. I DO know how you feel- this you may know. I have the same feeling and emotions as you. It makes you want to give up and yet we have an insticnt to survive or make it through one more day. Is this the way to live? I don't know, its the only thing people like you and I have. We say to ourselves " If I can just make it through one more day ". Maybe the next day an answer will come for us. You take care of yourself, dear. If you do need someone to talk to " I am Here " I DO know exactly how you feel.

       Steve 

    • cara06851
      cara06851 steven43881

      Posted

      Thanks Steven I am only hear because there is kids in the family way to young to understand but now I feel it would be better for myself and them if I was gone them seeing me suffer not just because the pain I can't even keep fluids down so eating deyhrated and more times I get deyhrated more my only kidney will get effected ready having problem with that now but how I see of if I die with deyhrastion I die don't want to go back down there now tried to get help yesterday but surgical was admitting me and going to put me on fluids but now have changed there minds

    • steven43881
      steven43881 cara06851

      Posted

      I do know how you feel, Dear. The medical profession is no help at all. You keep the Faith, ok.

        Steve

    • cara06851
      cara06851 steven43881

      Posted

      I have no faith at all every day I think about taking all my painkillers I can't cope anymore I know a and e said if I can't cope with the pain I can come back down but I don't see the point

    • steven43881
      steven43881 cara06851

      Posted

      I know how you feel, Cara. I have the same feelings everyday too myself. I have had them for many years. Yet i am still here. Maybe it is the will to survive, I don't know. I don't like my life, but I think always that something may be around the corner. Your going to have to have strength. You are not alone!! 

    • cara06851
      cara06851 steven43881

      Posted

      I feel such alone right now doctors don't understand if they could feel the pain I am in with painkillers not working and being unable to keep anything new down they would understand how it is

    • steven43881
      steven43881 cara06851

      Posted

      I know Exactly how you feel. That's how the drs. are with my prostatitis. They tell me that there is nothing they can do for me. They won 't even try. BUt, if they get it someday, than maybe somebody will try. They don't know. They don't even have a clue. I Know How You Feel.!!!!!! We never thought our lives would take a turn like this, did we? It makes you wonder. The world, I think, used to be a compassionate place. But with the advent of technology it seems to be getting colder and colder everyday. I think you and I could be in each others skin. We Both know how the other feels.!!

    • cara06851
      cara06851 steven43881

      Posted

      Just been seen by a doctor kept alittle down for half hour but came up been given antibiotic but couldn't keep it down got told phone back if I can't but not walking all the way back down again killed me just now

      Phoned nhs only to see if I can take an extra one off dose of pain med was my own gp doctor that phoned me but he wanted me to be seen gdoc said no to one off dose even though tablet was on 40mg ever 4 hours now now on liquid form of my morphin but only 10mg 4 times a day but hey ho will think about phoning my gp tomorrow they have tried so much but I really think I need iv fluids and iv antibiotics last time I could keep anything down was in hospital they never driped me ended up with a kidney infection for 3 week

      Waiting to see chronic pain team seen them once before and said try this patch numbs the area and that's all we can do then seen them again recently as an in Paitent and they put me on morphin patch and told again that's all they can do

  • borderriever
    borderriever cara06851

    Posted

    Cara

    It is no good being a slave to your condition, get yourself back down to A and E.

    they seem to want to help.

    Good Luck let us know how you get on 

    BOB

    • cara06851
      cara06851 borderriever

      Posted

      A and e can't do anything sugical refused me yesterday be the same today

    • borderriever
      borderriever cara06851

      Posted

      Sorry Cara I thought they had asked you to possibly return.

      I do not know why you are suffering pain, I have a chronic condition that involves Chronic Pain and I have been like this now for thirty years. I take Tramadol and Amytrptalene for the associated nerve damage in my hands feet and spine. I just had an operation on my right hand, they split the tendon to one of my fingers so it can be painful until it fully heals. I have been to pain clinic can I help you

      BOB

    • cara06851
      cara06851 borderriever

      Posted

      They said if I want to I can come back but they can't do anything sugical doctor declined me because it's my health I need to be put on that ward but right I am struggling but painkillers don't work but I have sockolorgy on Tuesday so try cope till then

    • borderriever
      borderriever cara06851

      Posted

      Try a glass of milk that may help get something on your tummy

      Anything to get some fluid into you.

      Good Luck with your appointent Tuesday, let us know How You get on

      BOB

    • cara06851
      cara06851 borderriever

      Posted

      Manage to keep some water down joys of health get something stuck all the time now it's getting to courage to take my pain killers and anti depressant want to take them

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