Herpes, pregnant, and my future Hubby doesnt know yet ;(
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I was the happiest woman ever at 30 finally found a wonderful man we have been together over 2 years and i recently found out i was pregnant i was super happy still am, its not the babys fault. But i also found out i was positive for Herpes 2.
I want to die!! I know he didnt give it to me because i experinced 3 small sores 3 years ago but never got tested because i tought it happened from rough sex and went away after a week.
no sores in 3 years, did random std checks like normal all fine, but they dont test for herpes.
I feel like hell on earth, finally when im trully happy how do i tell the man that i love i have this thing???
Hes going to leave me, he has trust issues because of padt experiences in relationships and he will think i cheated. I planned not to tell but, the thought of lying to the man i love kills me, so now im willing to tell and let him choose to stay or walk away... i will feel worthless but i have a baby to think about in the other hand im blessed to know my baby will be safe if i take the nessesary precautions and tbat gives me a piece of mind.
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jordan86846 raquel17765
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raquel17765 jordan86846
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Either way my symptoms happened before i knew him, and his cold sore happens every few months for what i know of him.
FelizCastus raquel17765
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Be sure to point out that GH can present in many different ways, both with/without symptoms or recurrences, so you had no reason to expect anything given your one-off mild symptoms.
Point out the "good" news, too, that at least you now know, so you can protect the baby. Also, there's a chance he may not be infected (he should test), plus you can take measures to reduce transmission if he is negative and concerned.
raquel17765 FelizCastus
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FelizCastus raquel17765
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Oral cold sores are nearly always caused by HSV-1 (related virus, but not the same), so he may have partial protection against HSV-2, but he could still get it from you, although prior HSV-1 is more likely to cause HSV-2 to be asymptomatic in him, if he gets it.
FelizCastus
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http://m.huffpost.com/ca/entry/7343630
raquel17765 FelizCastus
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didin FelizCastus
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FelizCastus didin
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didin FelizCastus
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KL090192 didin
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From what I have read you can still transmit the virus even if you don't have an out break because the virus can shed on the upper layers of your skin. But this doesn't mean the virus is constantly shedding, you just won't know when it is shedding on your skin vs having an outbreak and knowing the virus is currently shedding.
FelizCastus didin
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FelizCastus KL090192
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FelizCastus
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Female to male transmission when prodrome/outbreaks are avoided = 4%
Above + daily antiviral meds = 2%
Both of the above + condoms = 1%
Male to female transmission is a bit higher for all of the above scenarios, and possibly new infections as well (especially within the first 3 months to a year).
sweethheart5703 FelizCastus
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FelizCastus sweethheart5703
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