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Hi all! Continued strength and love! Ive missed being on here! So suportive! First,in reading some of the new discusions,I just want to say hang in there! Allow time,allow the emotional stuff that seems to come from nowhere and dont compare yourself.We you need love and understanding - come HERE.Sometimes they are the ONLY ones who can "get it"! Im fighting a battle! Any of you who read this send me love and light-prayers and your lovely energy please! Thank You!. Had my5 12 week check up last Tues 4/26.Dr said I could drive! Said I need therapy-hydrotherapy. Says maybe I can go back to work ease in about 2 weeks after I start therapy. He says my gait is off and im unsteady with the cane.I have a terrible limp. Says I have the 90 degree angle. restriction in place,Fine Great! THEN I cant get into hydrotherapy -they dont take my insurance,my Dr says he cant help with the authorization of it AND its the only place around 70 miles that does the hydrotherapy. So far lost all last week trying to get in. THEN faxed the paper over to work about that I can come back around the ninth w restrictions and work says NO. Cant come back with restrictions! So now no money no income no therapy. I started applyin for social security dissability-but here it takes 3-5 mos to be denied the 1st time,can be denied up to 3 times. AND the lady at the SSD office said that according to the ADA (american dissability act) my work "has to" at least look into "reasonable accomodation" BUT I work in Activitys in a nursing home -as my job title implies -its an active moving job and I have to move furnitue and move people all day for activitys that runs from taking care of baby chicks to gardening and setting up for happy hour patys etc. plus I teach exercise and do aromatherapyand meditation ...I LOVE my job,BUT Im quite sure there are no "reasonable accomodations" for them to get for me other then expecting the cna"s or other people to do the set up the clean up and get the people, NOT going to happen. SO I DONT want to "go after" my job for a dissability discrimination act, Im not even yet declared disabled. SO STUCK, cant go back to work,will definately have at least the 90 degree angle restriction for 3 mos ( Im at 6 weeks 3 days),no $$, no income,no therapy- more fighting insurance today. Im scared.My friends -who I KNOW love me cant bear to see me in such a way-they stay away now pretty much cuz they dont know what to do.The platitudes are worse anyway, "OH ITS NICE to be OFF WORK-JUST ENJOY IT. and I think yea in 2 months, when Im living in my car I ll try to remember that! I do have a laugh with it at least a couple times a day. I can say I dont let it stop me-I keep walking everday for now cane, sometimes walker still just keep walking for now! THEN my top denture broke! OMG can you believe it! 1200 to get a new one a quarter of that to fix them hahaha! What the heck can one do BUT laugh at this-laugh like a crazy person! Well, just wanted to check in,ask for your loving good energy-share some of your crazy," I cant believe this is happening" stories, and ideas on how to survive? Keep laughing Keep healing and dont stop walking! Love you all!
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bini31328 Meg1216
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Snowgirl79 Meg1216
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Oh my gosh!! I'm sorry to hear about all your troubles!! I will pray that all goes well and things start going positive for you from now on!! God bless and remember... What Scarlet Ohara said...after all tomorrow is another day!
renee01952 Meg1216
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sending you light, love and healing. ..
have faith. ..
know that you are loved .
big warm hug
Renee ❤
Loral Meg1216
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