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How to not to give up!!!

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Bombicka
Bombicka

Hi all of you!

My problems started twoo years ago. Doctors didnt know what was going on, I was suffering with so much pain. Finely I got antidepressive pills. Finely another doctor found the fissure. I tried botox with no efect and after that fissurectomy. I have had ahorrible pain, as all of you know, for months and after 10 months the wound still didnt heal. I have tried another operation cryosurgery......never go this way. I am in agony for three months and it doesnt want to heal. I cry all days, I have twoo little beatiful children an I want to die cause the pain will never stop. Nothing helps to heal the creator. It ruinds my life, my family, everything i loved is gone. I cant no more. Is there anybody in a similar sit or anybody who have tried cryosurgery with bad resoults. Thanks....,its nice to know not being alone in this missery. 

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  • debbie58553
    debbie58553 Bombicka

    Posted

    Wow you have a lot to deal with. It is horrible when you have so much pain. Have you seen anyone who can help with the pain. Maybe a chronic pain specialist can support. Try to keep going.
  • Jacqueline1986
    Jacqueline1986 Bombicka

    Posted

    Hi, you poor dear. I understand a littlealthough I have not had cryosurgery, I have had about ten surgeries to drain high abceesses and had sepsis several times, a sphincterotomy, a chronic fissure and fistula which I am awaiting surgery for next month. These are very uncomfortable issues. All on this forum can empathize with what you are going through. You truly are not alone. I don't know if this will work for you or not but when I am in a lot of pain I find taking a gravol or a clonazepam will help me relax because I find I become very tense after hours of being in a lot of pain that By being tense makes it worse.one before a sitz bath or even
  • Bombicka
    Bombicka

    Posted

    It seems to me that doctors dont do anything about the pain because besides the pain is not a serious medical problem. An regular pain killers dont work. 
    • debbie58553
      debbie58553 Bombicka

      Posted

      Have you tried anti depressants as they relax you. If you are in pain there you will be anxious and holding yourself tight which will intensify your pain. They help me
  • Bombicka
    Bombicka

    Posted

    I have tried it a year ago and it was eith no effect, still in pain, walking dead body, being sick constantly and being depressed. 
  • carol88922
    carol88922 Bombicka

    Posted

    You are not alone and So sorry to read about what you are going through.

    I am sure you've done this, but just in case...have you changed your diet? Only veggies, fruits, and lots of water, fiber and stool softners? Stay away from meat, gluten, and acidic foods. Also, is your doctor an experienced cool- rectal surgeon?

    Hang in there, my doctor told me..."it is a long and painful experience, but it will heal". And yes, I am healing.

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