My husbands is mad because I'm sick
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Well I had no idea this could happen but I think he's mad. Today he asked how I was feeling and I said better then he I think your depressed because your skeeping later in the weekend, I was floored I guess I'm not allowed to sleep in, I sleep til 830-9. I work all week and told him how exhausting it is to be dizzy all the time, he said well if took the topamax the doc wanted you to then you would fine and I said I'm not taking that cuz it's got bad side effects and I am doing the VRT and it's helping, then he said you go to the doc and not do what he says I said I've done everything except the topamax. He has no. Idea what this is like and I've gone to work everyday except for maybe 2-3 days since this started 9 months ago. I feel like crap now and guess I won't be telling him I'm sick again. I'm sure it's because of all the docs I've seen and the money.
I believe I can decide if I want take a med and if I don't feel comfortable taking it then I don't have to. I get it that yes the doc tells you what they think will work but also they don't know if if it will work. I don't like meds because I'm very sensitive to them so I try to do things without meds. Yes I'm a bit down but being bizzy is not fun and it's scarey.
I noticed when I got upset my dizziness hit and the stress shot up. I'm pretty mad about this and guess I'll just keep its to myself whenever i feel bad
I thought I had supports and could trust him but I don't think so anymore
Thanks for letting me vent coz I don't have anyone here I can talk to
Thanks
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kathie37110 patty818
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dee50000 patty818
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And it is exhausting, trying to keep your balance when you feel like you're walking on a trampoline. All you can do is tell him what your doctor says, and show him a website or a video of what your doctor says you have. Maybe then he will understand. (Getting up at 8:30am on a weekend is EARLY for me! ha ha)
We are hear to listen!
dee50000
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christine42810 patty818
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Good luck with it, I live in hope that one day my life will be back to normal. Yours too, I hope.
ClaireM. patty818
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I used to sit at my desk in the afternoon digging my nails into my hand to stop myself falling asleep! Thanksfully for me my condition can be treated with surgery.
It is about balance (pardon the pun), I am sure if you thought that the side effects of the medication were better than the balance issues you would be taking it. I'm sorry this is not the case for you.
It is about making life style adjustments so having a lie in when you can (even later than 9am if required) and knowing when your body is telling you to sit down.
I have seen people in similar discussions previously suggest that you show your other half the responses you receive. This isn't (unfortunately) just you, there are other people out there in the same boat and sometime seeing that other people have the same issues can reinforce your point.
Good luck and sorry you are suffering.