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My wife suffering of too much Pain

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Ornob
Ornob

I am 30 years old. and My wife is 27 years old. Our marriage life is around 7 months. 

She is doing job in another city. I usually visit her after two weeks. and stay for 2-3 days. 

So, each time when I visit her and intercourse with her she feel too much pain inside her vagina. She say, she is feeling pain like someone put chilis inside her vagina. After intercourse shee needs lot of water to wash her vagina. 

I also see sometimes there is while fluid release from her vagina.

However, after one intercourse she feels faired and same pain. 

So, she doesn't enjoy sex. Only she intercourse for me. 

But I heard that girl have more sex than a boy. 

So, what may be the problem?

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  • PVP-ouch
    PVP-ouch Ornob

    Posted

    If she's suffering long term pain then she really needs to visit Dr for correct diagnosis and, if required, medication.

    Each person's sex drive is unique to them and myths like girls prefer me sex don't do so much to foster understanding

  • saintlychik
    saintlychik Ornob

    Posted

    Maybe she is having an infection. Or the foreplay is not enough. So her vagina is still dry. That's what makes it difficult for her as your penis is not going in with ease. The friction of her skin and yours may be causing an internal bleed for your wife. That could be the cause of this pain.

    I suggest u try using lubrication (water based and silicon based are available). But first get her tested. She might be having an infection which she needs to be treated. UTI are very common for women so nothing to worry. Just urine culture and they will isolate the organism and give her antibiotics based on that.

    • Ornob
      Ornob saintlychik

      Posted

      Yes, you are right. She is also suffering from Vaginal dryness. But usually I try my best to foreplay with lot of time. Sometimes I take 20-30 minutes for foreplay. When I see no fluid coming...then use saliva for lubrication. So, is there any good treatment for vaginal dryness. 
    • MrPenguin
      MrPenguin Ornob

      Posted

      Have you any idea of the nasty bacteria that is in your mouth? Why would you use that as lubrication??

      Buy a tube of lubrication! They sell it in all supermarkets these days.. Sounds to me like she might have thrush or similar which most girls get, some suffer with it for decades.

    • Ornob
      Ornob MrPenguin

      Posted

      But before that I have searched on Internet and found that saliva is the most cheapest and safe lubrication using from hundreds of year ago. I have also bought KY Gel. Which I fee more sticky. Not perfect like saliva. 
    • PVP-ouch
      PVP-ouch Ornob

      Posted

      Saliva is a poor lubricant. It dries out far to too quickly. It really is s a terrible lubricant, the reason they used it for hundreds of years was for lack of a better product

      There are many brands of lube, I dislike KY and prefer durex, for example, less sticky and lasts quite some time when in use and a bottle goes a long way.

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