Newbie, scared and lots of questions - please help

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Hello, I would really appreciate some advice from more experienced sufferers. I was diagnosed with Interstitial Cystitis 7 yrs ago and also have Raynaud's and Hashimoto's. Recently, terrible dry mouth and recurring mouth sores and dry eyes have led my doc to send me to a specialist with suspected SS. I don't need to wait for bloodwork to know that this is what I have got unfortunately. My biggest question is this: will the symptoms I currently have that are making my life a misery persist every single day to the same intensity or are there periods of remission or reduced symptoms interspersed with flares? (This is how my Int Cyst functions, so it is managable) I honestly don't know how I am going to be able to continue my job (teacher - so I talk all day and am constantly required to interact) if these symtoms persist without respite. I am plagued with fear about other hidden symptoms I may have and the prospect of living with the very obvious ones I already have. Any info on the general course this illness takes would be much appreciated. Thanks

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    Well, the bad news is that Sjogrens is for life. However the good news is that - like all auto-immune conditions - it often goes into long periods of remission.

    I really feel for you with those mouth sores. I know they're agony. Dry mouth was the first SS symptom I ever had, more than 20 years ago now. I developed big cracks at each corner of my mouth that bled every time I tried to open my mouth to eat. Over the next 15 years I developed all kinds of other symptoms of SS - dry eyes, Reynaud's, under-active thyroid (though not Hashimoto's), peripheral neuropathy, carpal tunnel syndrome, and my rheumatoid arthritis came back. I think my SS was probably secondary, as I'd had a severe attack of RA that came from nowhere about 15 years before the onset of SS, but cleared up after six months of homeopathic treatment. Which may or may not have been down to placebo effect, of course. But I don't care - all that matters to me is whether something works!

    I was fortunate in that during the 15 years of acute SS I rarely had more than one symptom at a time - with the exception of neuropathy in one big toe, which went on for years. In my case the dry mouth cleared up after a few months (to be replaced by dry eyes) and has never been a serious problem since. It troubles me a lot in the night, when I often wake unable to swallow, but has never really affected me during the day since that first flare-up.

    After 15 years of wandering around my body, all my symptoms suddenly vanished. I even regained sensation in my numb big toe, which amazed my GP. I was completely symptom-free for several years, apart from my thyroid, which had been permanently affected. Towards the end of this time, I started getting pains in both upper arms, which scarcely troubled me at all until a couple of years ago, when I was diagnosed with tendinitis and polymyalgia rheumatica - neither of which I'd had before, though both are related to SS. A year ago, this started to get quite disabling, and I started getting severe pain in my right elbow and left thumb joints again.

    I admit I got a bit down when this all started after such a long remission, especially because I was afraid that at my age (now 71) I wouldn't have any more remissions. But, lo and behold, a couple of months ago the pain started receding, and without treatment. (My lovely GP always prescribes NSAIDs, and I always smile sweetly and tear up the prescription once I get outside - I'm a former nurse!) For the past few weeks I've been able to lift my arms above my head without any pain, and I'm able to unscrew bottle tops again without recourse to the nutcrackers. I feel I've been given a new lease on life! My left thumb joint has limited movement and doesn't look the way it used to, but it functions quite well again.

    The point of this long story is: don't get depressed about having SS. You haven't been sentenced to a life of pain and disability. You'll have some bad times but they won't last.

    On the practical side, has your doctor prescribed something to help your dry mouth? I can't advise on this one as I don't have to use this kind of product but there are all kinds of sprays and gels available, and I know others on this forum will chip in with suggestions. And it goes without saying that you're going to have to take extra care of your teeth from now on, and avoid sugar as far as possible. That goes for natural fruit sugar too - so no smoothies or fruit juice, even home-made. Just one or max two pieces of whole fruit per day, and as many green vegetables as you can eat. Always have water to hand, but don't drink large quantities at a time, as this just washes away what little saliva you have. Small, frequent sips are best.

    A lot of people swear by different diets. Many get relief from going gluten-free or cutting out dairy, others eat a vegetarian or even vegan diet, while still others go completely the other way and opt for paleo. You need to try everything and see what works best for you.

    To my mind, the most important thing is to stay positive. All auto-immune conditions have a psychosomatic element, so attitude is very important. And I'd like to stress that psychosomatic does NOT mean imaginary, which is what some people believe. Statistically, your chances of being severely disabled by SS are quite small. There are people on this forum who've been very unlucky and it can look as if they're the majority. However, don't forget that most SS sufferers never get diagnosed and live with their symptoms more or less harmoniously. These are the ones we don't hear about on a forum like this.

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      Thank you for your quick and positive reply. I have been prescribed spray and tablets for my dry mouth and eye drops but their effects are very short-lived. I am desperate to find something to halt the mouth sores. Is there anything that SS sufferers with this problem use to keep them at bay or speed up their recovery. There are some preparations that burn them which are very painful but then apparently the sore goes quickly. I am not sure it would be good to use this kind of product on an irritated membrane such as mine but there doesn't seem to be anything else.  It is so frustrating because I am being so careful with hygeine and hydration etc but it's as if my teeth rub on my tongue and inner lip when I speak and I can feel the same parts getting sore again and again. I have just come out of 5 hrs of class and I want to cry. I kept trying to minimise my talking time but it's just not possible to do my job and not talk.

      I know you are right that the patients who are doing well are generally not the ones on the forum.

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      Oh, I really sympathise. I can remember what it felt like when my bottom lip kept sticking to my teeth. I can't recommend anything myself, as the acute phase of dry mouth only lasted a few months for me, and that was back in 1995. However, I know there are lots of people on this forum who have really bad problems with dry mouth, and I'm sure they'll chip in with good advice over the next few days. Have you tried reading through the list of threads in the Sjogren's group? I'm sure a lot of them are specifically discussing dry mouth.

      I do know that some sufferers find it helps to chew sugar-free gum to promote the flow of saliva, though I realise that wouldn't be possible for you when actually teaching. Obviously you can't tell the kids to spit out their gum if you're chewing it yourself!

      Have you tried asking your dentist to recommend something? They're supposed to be experts on all mouth matters, not just teeth, but I know some are more knowledgeable than others.

      I know it's a worry, particularly when it affects your career, but try not to get too down about it. Negative feelings can have a direct impact on the immune system, weakening it in most people but, paradoxically, exciting it even more when it's already hyper-active. Statistically there's every chance you'll be one of the people who have long remissions.

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      Just hearing you say that the acute phase of dry mouth only lasted around a month is reassuring me already. I've had it on and off, mostly on for 4 months now but nothing as bad as this last fortnight and the severity of the eye dryness is much worse now too although I have had dry eyes in general for ages. Thank you for your kind words
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      More than a month - as far as I can remember at this distance it was more like three, maximum six, but it certainly wasn't very long, and it wasn't constant. It came and went during that period, like yours has. That's not to say I don't still suffer from dry mouth (and eyes), but it's not a major problem these days. I'm heartened to hear that it's been happening to you on and off, and hasn't always been as bad as it is right now. This suggests to me that this is just a flare-up and it will go back to more manageable proportions very soon. Though I'm afraid there's no guarantee it won't be replaced by another Sjogren's symptom, as happened to me. That's just the nature of the beast...
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      Hi

      This was a fantastic reply.

      I have SS & have been geting neuropathy. Does it come & go is it anything to worry about. Ive been taking pregabalin for a couple of months. It helps me sleep. But nit sure if the neuropathy is going

      Thank you

      X

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      Oh dear, I'm so sorry to hear your neuropathy is stopping you from sleeping. Is this because you're experiencing actual pain? I'm guessing yes, because Pregabalin is prescribed specifically for nerve pain. A lot of SS sufferers get peripheral neuropathy - I did for years - but in our case it more often takes the form of altered sensation (tingling, electric shocks, numbness) rather than actual pain.

      The endless tingling and electric shocks in my hands and feet finally cleared up spontaneously. To my and my GP's absolute amazement, the sensation even returned quite suddenly in one of my big toes, that had been numb for 10 years! This is very much a feature of SS. We often get long remissions, where our symptoms disappear almost immediately.

      Symptoms also move around the body, and from one system to another too - very much the case for me. That's why I'm slightly concerned about your taking Pregabalin (unless the pain is unbearable, of course). As I'm sure you know, dry mouth is one of the side-effects, and that's also one of the main symptoms of SS.

      Finally, we can sometimes manage our own symptoms by thinking about causes and how to avoid them. About six months ago, I started having what was clearly nerve pain all down my left arm. Added to the existing pain of tendinitis in both arms, this used to keep me awake at night too. I also periodically lost power in that arm, often at unexpected moments. It came to a head one night, while putting plates away in a shoulder-high cupboard. I suddenly lost power and dropped the lot, smashing all seven of them on the kitchen floor. It was 10.30 at night and I live in an apartment, so goodness knows what the neighbours thought was going on!

      That got me started on looking at what I might have been doing to cause the nerve damage. In my case it was easy once I thought about it. Throughout last summer, I'd been obliged by circumstances to walk 4 miles several days a week. Because most of my journey was through slightly dodgy parts of town, I'd been wearing my bag - containing a bottle of water, which made it heavier - diagonally across my body to stop it being snatched. I'd been wearing light summer clothes, which didn't offer any protection, and had been aware of the strap cutting into the base of my neck on the left side, but hadn't taken any notice of this. I switched to a little back-pack, which I've used ever since and guess what...? The pain disappeared after a few weeks, along with the sudden losses of power, and hasn't been back since.

      I know it's not always as easy as that, but sometimes a little thought about lifestyle issues can produce very good results without resorting to medication.

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      Hi

      Yes was Put on pregabalin for the pain.

      Sounds like you have been thru it.

      Oh you no what i have this horrible pain on my big right toe it feels so bruised. Reading your reply maybe this coukd be the neuropathy? Wen i say to the rheumatologist my big toe really hurts he just looked at ne like i was crazy...lol

      Rheumy prescribed hydroxychloroquine it gave me a shooting pain in my thigh it was horrendous. So I stopped taking it. Waiting for a follow up appt.

      I want to try get thru all this without the horrible medication

      So the neuropathy will come & go?

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      Well, with a bit of luck it will go as well as come, but we're all different so it's impossible to establish rules. My basic neuropathy - the tingling etc. - lasted about 10 years, but it came and went and moved around even in that time. Only my right big toe was a persistent problem throughout the 10 years. I had to be very careful looking after the skin and nail in the last couple of years of that time, when it was completely numb, to avoid infection - a bit like a diabetic. The nerve pain in my left arm only lasted a couple of months, until I figured out what I was doing to cause it and stopped doing it. I never figured out what was causing the toe problem - it just upped and left one day!

      If your big toe feels as if it's bruised that's more likely to be rheumatoid arthritis or gout, both of which are part of SS, of course. I used to get a lot of pain in both big toe joints in my first RA flare-up 35 years ago. I'm surprised your rheumatologist doesn't take you more seriously.

      I don't think you'll regret stopping the hydroxychloroquine (Plaquenil). A few people on this forum swear by it, but most of the reports seem to be negative. And have you read the list of possible side-effects? As mentioned above, I've been lucky enough to be able to manage my symptoms for more than 20 years now without taking any prescription meds except thyroxine for an under-active thyroid.

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      Hi

      Thank you so much, youve been a great help.

      Ok so i should try look at the neuropathy like pmt it will come & go. Lol.

      Yeah im really not sure bout the hydroxychloroquine. I didnt have thigh pain before & now i have!

      Yeah my big toe feels like its bruised. I will ask rheumy bout it wen i go again.

      Thanks again

      X

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      Try using coconut oil for the sores in your mouth. It's all natural, so there are no side effects. Just rub a little on each sore. I found it soothing when I was dealing with cankers.
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      Thanks for the tip. How does it help? I feel like there must be something out there that can make them heal quicker or not get so painful. You say 'When I was dealing with them" so how did they clear up? 
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      I changed my diet to mostly paleo and avoided all the foods that trigger sensitivities in my body (i had a blood test for this). I also ate things that helped with my digestion, like pickled foods. It's not so easy to say exactly, but I do know that I used to be plagued with cankers and now I can't remember the last time I've had one. Even if I accidentally bite my lip, it doesn't turn into a cold sore any more. I wish I had an easy answer for you. I looked up on the internet every possible natural solution and did as much as I could. I think it is a combination of things. For immediate results though, I would say avoiding sugar, salt, acidic foods, completely until your sores are healed might help. Coconut oil to sooth them.
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      One more thing, I was getting sores on the inside of my cheeks, and finally discovered that my toothpaste was causing a reaction in my mouth--even though I had used the same toothpaste for years. I now use a very natural toothpaste made in France, and I feel so much better. No irritation at all.
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      My dentist said avoid toothpaste with sodium laurel sulphate in it as a lot of people react to it.
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      I would also avoid any toothpaste with triclosan. Toothpaste, as well as soaps and antibacterial lotions might have this ingredient. Look for alcohol-based antibacterial lotions, they are much safer. Triclosan is known for being a thyroid disrupter.

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