Struggling with new diagnosis

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I was just diagnosed with Meniere's Disease a few days ago after months of fluctuating dizziness and tinnitus.  I'm only 31 years old.  I feel like my entire life was taken away from me and I'm looking for some reason to be optimistic.  Is it possible to live a normal, happy life with this disease?  Is there any possibility that it will ever go away on its own or at least not get any worse than it already is?  Is there any research being done to look for a cure?

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    Hi Jo this is how I felt at the beginning. But after doing research I came across a web site saying take these certain vitamins and minerals and they seem to be making the world of difference. They are high does muti vitamins and minerals, high vitamin c, grape seed, calcium and ginkgo. Also it is important not to let yourself get too tired, try taking a nap during the day and a good ten hours at least at night. I hope this helps you x
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    Joel,

    I am someone who has sufferred from the symptoms of Meniere's for most of my life (i am 22 and ear problems and dizziness were noticed when i was 2) and it is perfectly possible to live with meniere's.

    Tinnitus is most notable when you're not doing much of anything (i hear it a lot when i am trying to sleep) but can be drowned out.

    The dizziness is something you need to be aware of especially when outside so make sure you have something to support you when the attack happens. Fullness of the ear and ear pain happens sporadically, much like the vertigo attacks, but as long as you keep away from loud sources it is manageable.

    Having lived with meniere's for a long time it's "normal" for me to have these symptoms and I don't really know what it's like to live without them. My biggest advice is much easier said than done; avoid stress.

    Medicine is available for ear pain, fullness and vertigo to mitigate the effects. I am on low dosage of amitryptaline for the pain and cinnarizine for the vertigo though when i am stressed they don't help much.

    There is currently no known medical treatment for meniere's and it doesn't go away on it's own, but you won't be experiencing distracting ear fullness, vertigo and tinnitus 100% of the time.

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    Hi Joel,

    I am on cinnarizine and it seems to have made a big difference to me from day one of taking it.  The week before I was having big attacks every other day minimum (puking, unable to move, the lot) and then my GP put me on the cinnarizine and wham, massive improvement.  Can't be coincidence.  Ask if you can take it.

    Fil

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      No I don't think so.  I've got that too in both pill form, as bucastem for during an attack to put under my tongue to dissolve as I'm likely to throw up and also as an injection that my husband can give me.  So I use the stemetil for an attack but the cinnarizine three times a day.  It's an anti sea sickness drug!  You can buy it over the counter in the UK as Stugeron same dose.  Unfortunately since I wrote this I've had to come off it for a while as I was getting side effects (shaking) but I'm back on it now and it's just as good.

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    I was diagnosed in 2001 with MD. My world came to an abrupt end. My dad had it from the age of 26 right up until his death in 2009. (I'd had symptoms since 1999 aged 38,

    Luckily I went to the best specialist in the country, the late, great Jim Cook at the Leicester Balance Clinic (NHS, not private) and saw the wonderful team there who cover all aspects of any vestibular illness. (thanks all)

    Jim Cook was honest enough to say that there wasn't a cure - there still isn't (I'm doing my own research now and there are lots of people doing research out there along with clinical trials etc)

    BUT

    There are things that can make a difference. I found that my attacks "seemed" to be worse if I ate salty food - but it could be coincidence.. With MD you try to search for anything that will make it better and can convince yourself that  - "Oh, that works, I'll do it again" but in reality, your MD was just fluctuating any way.

    I sobbed while writing my letter of resignation to my employer, I'd been on the sick for a year with attacks 3 to 4 times a week. That was a low point, very low.

    My advice, (and this was the best thing I've ever done!) is to join the Meniere's Society.

    They have leaflets of treatments and advice and are at the end of a phone if you feel suicidal - which I did at first.

    They produce a newsletter - "Spin" - appropriate name !, I think there are 3 -4 a year sent out to us.

    My life has completely changed.

    My Meniere's is completely different to my partners (who I met through the MD Society) and you will find we all vary.

    My dad's MD was different to mine and my partner's dad had it totally different too. The 3 main symptoms of vertigo, deafness and Tinnitus are in classic MD, but the severity of "attacks" can be so different in different people.

    A friend thought her MD had gone as she hadn't had an attack for a year, but back it came after another 6 months. My dad's followed a similar pattern. His "breaks" were for 3 to 5 years at a time after having about a year of attacks in a cluster.

    Yes my life has changed as I cannot do the job I used to. Surgery (it was experimental and did what it was supposed to do) killed off the inner ear, but left me with other problems to cope with AND to add insult to injury I now have MD in my other ear, like my partner has.

    New treatments include Steroid or Gentamicin injections into the ear - but these come with possible side effects and don't seem to be a permanent cure.

    I had Gentamicin by operation - a pump was fitted into my left ear, I wore a box around my neck with the Gentamicin in and it pumped it slowly into my middle ear onto the membrane to kill off the hairs inside the inner ear. It worked, no more vertigo, BUT I'm completely deaf in that ear now. I didn't know I'd get MD in the other ear!

    But it did what I wanted it to do -

    It's the violent vertigo that stopped me from leaving the house - after many near misses of hugging the pavement for hours, people thinking that you are drunk and walking around you, 

    One thing I have "cured" is my tinnitus (in the scheme of things it affected me the least (it didn't stop me doing things, it can't hurt me - my vertigo can, I sometimes crash to the floor with spins that come on with no warning, and my "drop attacks are the same)

    I went to a British Tinnitus Association day and a psychologist talked about how our brains worked and I realised that I'd been doing the right thing for the past 6 months to retrain my brain not to listen to the constant raging noise in my head.

    My mum and dad are no longer here, but it helped to have people around me who understood this horrid disease. Many people don't. (or don't want to)

    There will be times when you feel low, that's normal. When you can do things that make YOU feel good - a treat, whatever, do it and. . . .

    You can get through it. 

    I now belong to a textile art group (we are exhibiting our work at two venues this year) and I paint and draw MD permitting. (I've lost count of how many things I've had to cancel)

    Life is quite good,  I met my partner and soulmate through having MD.

    I've been through hell, not just with MD, but it could be a lot worse (my dad died from cancer and my mum was bed-ridden for the last 9 years of her life with leukaemia and dementia)

    Take care, be good to you

    xXx

     

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      Just to add - (oh good grief, is she still waffling on you're thinking lol)

      I took Serc (Betahistine Dihydrochloride) for the first 2 years  - it didn't help me, made me feel rough and wooly headed.

      I tried Cinnerizine, which is basically an anti sickness pill which didn't work.

      Now I take Stemetil (Prochlorperazine) if a vertigo attack is imminent or a Buccastem (same drug but not to swallow) under the top lip if the attack has started. I think they help a bit 

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      Well...it was good reading your account.

      I have had MD since 1996. It disappeard for nearly 10 years but I was still aware of some dizzy moments. The past 4 years have been awful with regular attacks, and have now had to give up work-a job that I loved...but it was making me worse.

      I am not too good the past 2 weeks, but I wont let this disease stop my life. I am going on holiday 1h april as I am 60 next week. I am not always well but I find if I do things slowly and dont get stressed!!!!! I usually manage. It is the spins that get to me as I then have to rest until they settle.

      I have a very good consultant that works in Warwickshire. I am on Betahistine 32mg 3 x day and now take amytriptyline 30mg at night. I also take prochlorperazine or buccastem as required.

      I seem to have managed on the betahistine....

      I still drive short distances and just try to live a normal life. It is hard and I have had to cancel events etc...

      I follow this site for any help and advice and also joined the MD society.

      I do wear 2 hearing aids now and I told the consultant I dot wan any surgery that might make my hearing worse.

      Its so good to be able to 'talk' to others with MD.

      Take Care...

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      Hi. I have been struggling with Meniere's for about 15 years. My attacks last anywhere from a day to a month straight. I am getting them a lot here lately. My doctor finally found a medicine that will work but after about a year. It's not working anymore. I am now having attacks then will come out of them and then within a day or so going back into them. I am a single mom raising two kids and I am overwhelmed. I don't know how much longer I can keep doing this. I work full time and go to work no matter what but can't keep it up much longer. I NEED HELP.I saw that u mentioned a support group. How do I find them. Please help me.

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      It sure is good to discuss this - I always feel sometimes I'm all alone.  I go on the meds and then I'm good and then I go off the meds and I'm good and then I'm not good - I'm spinning and exhausted and have no control.  Thank you all.

       

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      Hello there, I too am a single mum of 2, I also have no family in Australia where I live, so I totally get where you are coming from.

      Please go an see a different ENT specialist if you aren't getting anywhere.  You need to exhaust all possiblities of medicine/surgery that can improve you quality of life, you need to be well for your beautiful kids.  I wish you all the best xxx

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      Hi, I got a hearing aid but it made me feel weird in my head so I've never worn it.  

      And - I don't think you should be driving at all.  The DVLA is very clear that anyone suffering from 'giddiness' should not drive.  I don't, because if I had any sort of accident and it was discovered that I had MD our insurance would be void.  That would be awful.  Not to mention the fact that if I had an attack while driving I might injure or kill someone.  I've had attacks in the car as a passenger and I know absolutely that if I'd been driving I would have had an accident.

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      Do you ever gets used to the vertigo attacks? I've had about 10 I guess in 15 years, 2 in the last 2 months - they TERRIFY me! 😩

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