Gender dysphoria is the distress caused by the feeling that your gender identity does not match the biological gender that you are. For example, if you were born with the genitals of a boy, but feel that you are female, or the other way around. This used to be called "gender identity disorder". However, this suggests that identifying yourself as the other gender is an illness. It is only an illness if it causes you unhappiness, or affects your health and well-being.
There are many ways you can obtain help and support if you are struggling as a result of your gender identity. If you wish to change your gender, the medical profession will support you in doing so. There are gender identity clinics with a wide variety of professionals who specialise in helping people make changes so they are happy with their gender.
What is gender dysphoria disorder?
"Gender identity" means the sex (gender) we most feel we are. For most people this is the gender they were assigned at birth as a result of the appearance of their genitals. However, for some people there is a mismatch between the gender they feel they are, and the gender they appear as to other people.
Gender dysphoria is the term used by most health professionals for the distress people experience when the gender they were assigned when they were born doesn't match the gender they feel they are. Dysphoria means unhappiness. So "gender dysphoria" describes the distress and problems which may be caused by gender identity issues.
Gender identity disorder is becoming an outdated term. It is gradually being changed because the term suggests a mental illness. It is not an illness to be transsexual, or to feel you should be another gender than the one you are born with. However, it can cause some problems and distress. You may wish to ask for medical help if you feel this way. You may need help coming to terms with the effect it has on your life. Or you may wish for help in changing your appearance to fit with the gender you feel is right for you. In order to access this care there has to be a medical term. Nowadays it is understood that being transsexual or transgender does not refer to illness - it refers to diversity. This is why the term "gender dysphoria" is now used instead of the diagnosis "gender identity disorder".
Some more definitions
Transsexual: a person who feels an overwhelming desire to make a physical change and live their life as a member of the opposite gender. Many transsexual people actively wish for and undergo an operation to change their gender.
Transgender or trans: this can refer to a number of different gender experiences. It can include transsexual people, transvestites and cross-dressers. It is a word which can be used differently by different people, so may be confusing.
Trans woman/trans man: a trans woman is a person who has been assigned as a male at birth, but who later identifies as a woman. A trans man is a person who has been assigned as a female at birth, but later identifies as a male. These are terms used BEFORE a person has any gender-changing surgery, or makes any legal changes. After either of these events, they would normally refer to themselves as a woman or a man respectively.
Transvestite: a transvestite is a person who dresses in the clothing of the opposite sex. This usually refers to a man dressing as a woman. Transvestites do not necessarily wish for permanent changes to their gender.
Gender identity and the law
The Gender Recognition Act is a law in the UK which allows transsexual people to change their legal gender. In the UK, individuals may apply to the Gender Recognition Panel for a Gender Recognition Certificate. In order to obtain this certificate, you have to prove that you have been diagnosed with gender dysphoria. You also have to prove you have lived in your proposed gender for at least two years. You cannot be married at the time of applying. However, if you are married you may be able to obtain an "Interim Gender Recognition Certificate." You do not have to have had any gender-changing surgery in order to apply.
If you are given a Gender Recognition Certificate, you would then be referred to as a 'man' or a 'woman' and not a 'trans man' or 'trans woman'.
The Equality Act of 2010 protects everyone from being discriminated against as a consequence of their gender, gender reassignment, age, race, disability, religion or any other personal characteristic.
How common is gender dysphoria?
It is difficult to know how common gender dysphoria is. The number of people who attend gender identity clinics is likely to be a small proportion of people who have gender issues. Many will keep quiet about the way they feel, so the true numbers are difficult to count. It is thought that as many as one in a hundred people may have issues relating to their gender. Around 7,500 people have undergone gender-changing operations in the UK.
Who has gender dysphoria?
The average age of people presenting to gender identity clinics is 42 years. Gender dysphoria affects men and women. About four times as many people who were born male want to change their gender as those born female. It can affect children and teenagers as well. Around 100 children and adolescents are referred to specialist gender services each year in the UK.
What is the cause of gender dysphoria?
It is not yet known what causes gender dysphoria. It is likely to be a combination of a number of factors. This includes the genes you inherit, your hormones, your brain structure, and the environment and culture you grow up in.
What are the problems associated with gender dysphoria?
Gender dysphoria is a feeling that you are not the gender that you were given at birth. It causes an intense wish to change gender. You may feel a wish to hide or get rid of characteristics which are typical of your assigned gender. For example, breasts or genitals or facial hair.
Gender dysphoria can make you feel very unhappy. Often other people do not understand your wish to be another gender, and this can cause difficulties in relationships with friends and family. It may cause stress, anxiety or depression. It may cause problems at work. Trying to suppress intense feelings can make you feel low, anxious and unsatisfied with your life.
Being transsexual, and wishing to be another gender, is NOT a mental illness. However, the problems associated with this can make you unwell.
Thinking about changing gender can be a very daunting, scary prospect. If you are considering this, there are lots of ways to obtain help and support, discussed below.
Can children have gender dysphoria?
Yes. Children and teenagers can have gender dysphoria. More often than not, this goes away as they go through puberty. Therefore, it is particularly important for children and teenagers to be supported and helped as they grow up. As time goes by, they will have a better idea of what their gender identity will be in the long term. Some children who had gender dysphoria when very young grow up to be homosexual or bisexual rather than transsexual.
Some of the signs of possible gender dysphoria in children are:
- Wanting to dress in the clothes usually worn by the opposite gender.
- Wanting to play the types of games those of the opposite gender usually play.
- Wanting to play with the opposite gender more than their own.
- Saying they dislike their genitals or wish to get rid of them.
- Saying they are the opposite gender or saying they wish to be the opposite gender.
Gender behaviour is quite stereotyped, and there is a lot of overlap. Not every girl who wants to dress in boys' clothes, or every boy who likes to play with dolls is struggling with gender dysphoria!
Children who behave differently than their peers may be more likely to be bullied. They may be unhappy at school.
How do I find help if I have gender dysphoria?
There are lots of ways to obtain support and help if you have gender dysphoria. The first place to start is the huge amount of information which is available on the websites of the support groups listed below. These have lots of information about gender dysphoria and the treatments for it. They can put you in touch with other people who have had similar feelings and problems. There is lots of information and support for your family or friends as well, to help them understand what you are going through. All the types of issues you might be facing, or might have to face, are discussed.
Visiting your GP would be another good starting point. Your GP will want to know all about how you feel, and how long it has been going on. They may wish to examine you. They will ask about exactly what type of help you want. If you wish, they may refer you for counselling or talking therapy to help your mind get to grips with the way you feel. Professional help with sorting out the thoughts in your mind may then help you decide what you wish to do about them. You may or may not wish to have treatment to change your gender.
Often your GP will refer you to a mental health specialist in the first place. This is NOT because you have a mental illness. It is to get some talking therapy for you, but also to confirm the diagnosis of gender dysphoria. In order to be able to have treatments to change gender, you must have had this diagnosis confirmed. Normally if you wished to change your gender, you would then be referred on to a specialist gender services clinic.
There are only a few specialist gender identity clinics in the country, but you would be referred to your nearest one. Gender identity clinics consist of lots of different specialists, because they offer lots of different treatments. You may need some or all of these. There may be surgeons, specialists in hormone treatments (endocrinologists), psychiatrists, people who specialise in support and talking treatments (psychotherapists, counsellors and psychologists), speech and language therapists, people who specialise in hair changes, nurses, social workers and occupational therapists.
There are also some private gender identity clinics in the UK, which you may choose to consider.
Children and adolescents are referred to the local Child and Adolescent Mental Health Service (CAMHS) in the first place. This is so they can have an assessment to see whether they do indeed have gender dysphoria. If so, they then have talking treatments (such as counselling and psychotherapy and family therapy). They may then be referred to the only specialist gender identity clinic in the UK for children and teenagers. This is based in London, in the Tavistock and Portman NHS Foundation Trust. The website address is listed in 'References' at the end of this leaflet. It has links to further information about referrals and treatments. This clinic provides further help and support for this age group. Sometimes children are given hormone treatments to delay puberty. This is to give them more time to consider their gender identity. Many children will not have gender dysphoria which lasts once they are grown up.
What treatments are there for gender dysphoria?
There are a number of different treatments for gender dysphoria. You may wish for one or some or all of them. You may have them in turn, or all at the same time. This is a brief explanation of some of the treatments provided by the specialist clinics.
Counselling and psychotherapy are talking treatments. Professionals help you explore your feelings and help you understand yourself better. There may be a combination of individual and group-based options. You will be able to talk through the implications of changing gender on your life.
Hormone treatments to change gender
Our hormones help to give our bodies their male or female characteristics. They cause our bodies to grow hair in a male or female pattern. They affect where we lay down fat, which gives us a typically male or female shape. They affect our muscle development. They cause periods in women, and erections in men.
Therefore, when people wish to change gender, treatment is given to stop the production of their own hormones, and replace them with the type of hormones they want. So males who wish to become females have their male hormones (androgens) blocked, and they are given female hormones (oestrogen). The effects of this include bigger breasts, hips and bottoms and prevention of erections. If females wish to become males, their female hormones are blocked, and they are given a male hormone called testosterone. This causes a deeper voice, an enlarged clitoris, and more body hair. It also stops periods, and breasts become smaller. Some fat becomes muscle.
The medication which blocks your own hormones is called a gonadotrophin-releasing hormone (GnRH) analogue. It is often given as an injection every 4-12 weeks. Oestrogen hormones can be given as tablets, patches or a gel. Testosterone can be given as injections or a gel.
Hormone treatment is not safe for everybody, and your specialist would check whether it is safe for you. If, for example, you have a history of blood clots (thrombosis) or heart disease or serious migraines, it may be too risky for you to have oestrogen treatment. If you have a history of breast cancer, cancer of the womb (uterus) or serious liver problems, it may not be safe for you to have testosterone treatment. If hormones are prescribed, you would have regular blood tests and physical check-ups to make sure they are not causing any harm.
Hormones may be the only treatment you need to live as the opposite gender. However, some people have hormone treatment and an operation as well.
Children with gender dysphoria may also be prescribed medication to block their own hormones. This is to stop them going past a certain stage of puberty. This gives them more time to consider their gender identity. The block is reversible, so once the treatment is stopped, they will continue the changes of puberty as normal. Once they reach the age of 16 to 18, if they still have gender dysphoria, hormone treatments with oestrogen or testosterone may be a possibility. This would be decided with the gender development and identity specialists for children and adolescents. After 18, they would attend adult gender identity clinics.
There are quite a number of different operations which may be done for people wishing to change their gender. These include:
- Genital changes for males wishing to become females. In this case, the penis and testicles are removed. Female genitals are fashioned in their place. A vagina, labia and clitoris can be created.
- Genital changes for females wishing to become males. In this case, the womb (uterus) is removed. Ovaries and the tubes which connect them to the womb (Fallopian tubes) may also be removed. A penis, scrotum and testicles are created, usually from skin taken from elsewhere. This is usually from the inner arm, or the skin on the lower part of the tummy (abdomen.) Alternatively a penis can be made from a female clitoris which has been enlarged with hormone treatment.
- Breast surgery. Males wishing to become females may wish for surgery to enlarge their breasts. Females wishing to become males may wish for their breasts to be removed (mastectomy).
- Facial surgery. Some males have operations to change the shape of their face to look more feminine.
- Voice surgery. Hormone treatment can cause a deeper voice for females becoming male. However, for men to have a higher-pitched, female-sounding voice, they may need voice therapy or an operation.
Speech and language therapy
Specialised speech and language therapists help you learn the voice and mannerisms of the gender you wish to be.
Trans women may need help with hair removal. There are a number of ways this can be done. Laser and electrolysis treatments remove unwanted hair. These are usually done by beauty therapists or laser clinics, and may not be available on the NHS. They may also need help with wigs, or hair transplants.
Advice about fertility
One of the issues to think about when having gender-changing surgery is whether you want to have children. The operations involved would make this impossible by natural routes. You may want to think about storing eggs or sperm for the future.
Are there any risks or problems after treatment for gender dysphoria?
Most people who have had gender-changing treatment are happy with the results. Very few people regret making the change. Studies show people with gender dysphoria who have had gender-changing hormones and/or operations feel happier as a result. They are happier with the way they feel, the way they look, and the way they are able to have sex.
There can be problems following treatment, however, so it is very important to discuss these first with your specialist. This way you can make an informed decision, taking into account the risks and the benefits. All operations can in some cases have complications, and you should discuss these with your surgeon before going ahead. Hormone treatment also comes with some risks, and your doctor will discuss these with you. Problems can mostly be prevented by having regular check-ups. These include physical checks (such as blood pressure) and blood tests. You can also keep your risks low by living a healthy lifestyle. This includes doing regular exercise, keeping your weight in a healthy range, and not smoking.
People who have gender dysphoria are more likely to have depression, suicidal thoughts and die from suicide. So it is very important to take up the counselling or talking treatments you are offered. If you find yourself feeling low, anxious or stressed, or wishing you were not alive, see your GP. They will be able to obtain help for you.
There are a lot of implications of gender-changing surgery. That is, things to think about which will change. They can be quite daunting. Support groups such as GIRES, below, have some helpful information which may be of aid in tackling this.
Further help & information
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