5 weeks post op n woke up so depressed
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hi ladies, well today i am 5 weeks post op anterior repair , and ive woke up so depressed im near to tears ,sometimes i actually wish i never had this op and just tried to manage with my prolapse even though it was a bad prolapse i was never down like this or had pain , im still throbbing nearly all the time, this horrible big bump/lump i have inside my vagina is showing no signs of going away,it is high up and to the right side if that makes sense but sometimes it feels like its come down low just like a prolapse , my head is just all over the place just now and i know the stress isnt helping , when i got my op i was like "what was i worried about" but now its like "what have i done" not being able to do much with my 9 month old daughter and my youngest son is a nightmare, especialy with the holidays here and my 6 yr old wants to go out on day trips , sorry for the depressing moan ladies, i know we are all going through it xx
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karen08997 helen73p
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phyl_40063 helen73p
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Sometimes it helps just to let things out, everyone seems to say that they get weepy and down around 5/6 week stage, and quite a few have said that by 7/8 weeks things are so much better. Its all starting to get to me too and I'm only coming up for 4 weeks post op, dread to think what I will be like by next week. Starting to get fed up reading and watching telly. Have started very short walks round the block and pottering about doing light dusting, keep making light snacks and hot drinks out of boredom will end up the size of a house. Roll on 7/8 weeks can maybe start hoovering and ironing.
My teenager loves art and crafts she told me I should learn to paint since I have so much time on my hands, I have always been pretty rubish at art, all the practise in the world is unlikely to improve it.
Hope things pick up for you, a few weeks can seem like an eternity, but things will get better
Phyl xx
Hijadeonagro helen73p
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jill2310 helen73p
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Honeslty the 1st 5/6 weeks are the hardest and you see little improvement down there.
i also was worried about the bulge I still felt but it must just be swelling.
i had my 7 week post op check last week and he examined me internally (surprisingly didn't hurt at all) He said prolapse definitely gone and wall was flat as a pancake! It is just inflammation and swelling. The difference from 6 weeks to 8 weeks post is incredible so hang on in there, chin up you'll soon feel much better.
The 1st 6 weeks have been longest of my life, there was days as a young mum I questioned having it done but honestly no regrets at all now and starting to feel like a new women.
Good luck with rest of your recovery, try and rest as much as poss as think it's so important in the early days xxxx
KJ1234 jill2310
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i went into Bakewell at the week end and walked round with no bulge or ańything feeling un comfortable - felt just how it should.
i did very little for the 1st 2 weeks but since then have gradually done things round the house that need doing, slowly built my walking up and now doing 45 mins a day-no problem. I've avoided lifting anything heavy as scared to death of un doing anything but ironing, washing clothes and generally looking after the kids ok. Still feel quite tired (I had Vagainal hysterectomy as well) so resting in afternoon and sometimes still having a snooze)
i felt just like you at 5 weeks but honestly all of a sudden I've turned a corner keep me posted with your recovery xx
KJ1234 helen73p
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I'm 6 weeks today - I know the feeling. I thought I was fine, then went into the office for an hour last week and now have this leg pain back. I still have a lump too, looks like I can see my cervix, but all the ladies on this forum have reassured me this is normal. I'm a single mum of two so although I have been at home in bed most of the time I still have to do laundry and cook dinners etc. The boys are off school now and I have laid out a fortune in childcare and they are sick of me not being able to take them out. I have my consultation of Friday - I am hoping/wishing/praying he tells me it all looks good. I am worried that I have overdone, I am worried that I have screwed it up and will have to go through this all again. I just can't. All I can say to you is that although it doesn't feel it we are still in the midst of recovery and things will not be normal for a few weeks yet. Apparently it is all worth it in the end.....if I haven't screwed it up! Take care and just know what you are feeling is totally 'normal'
K x
barbara_92 helen73p
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I developed other issues with chronic tenderness, burning and then ulcers down there around week five. Ulcers healed up but constant burning in your bits is not pleasant.
I hope you feel better soon
Jan999 helen73p
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I felt the same around the 4 week mark. I was sick of the lump and the pain and when I looked in the mirror I no longer recognised myself but I promise you in a few weeks time you will feel as though you're turning a corner. It often happens quite suddenly, the lump will still be there but not a big but your body will start to recover.
Write a post every hour if it makes you feel any better because someone will be here. I don't think you are moaning. Chin up helen we are all here for you 😘😘
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