7 and a half weeks TKR
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Hi. Is anyone else out there feeling a lot of pressure concerning there job! I'm 57. And I work for a large rail company. Credit where credit is due they have been pretty good up to now. They were supportive when I was widowed twice ( I have worked for them a long time) and I have had time off for various surgery's etc. But over the years has seen change and now I being pressured into going back to my full time position . My boss was quite unpleasant on the phone. Then emailed me some tests I needed to do .now he wants me to travel up to London from my home in Bexhill. Next week To have a company medical. My consultant has signed me off til 9th April as he feels I'm not ready that my knee is not up to it yet . I personally don't feel ready. And to sit on a busy train for 2 to 3 hours each way just fills me with dismay as that will hurt! Im getting so depressed by it all. That I don't want to answer the phone. Only had 3 physio sessions. But I am progressing just at a snails pace! Still considerable discomfort at times. Maybe I should write novels ha ha. It certainly is a challenge this op isn't it!!!
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sarcee50 jayne15912
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petemorris jayne15912
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"After taking advice from your consultant, he has strongly advised that travelling on public transport would be very unwise, in view of the short time since the operation and could lead to accident injury and or prolonged time off recovering.
Should you wish to have me examined by another consultant (not just a company doctor), then you are very welcome to visit me at home".....
"You will be pleased to advise when he gives you the ok to return to work.
Kind regards.....Blah blah.."..
sarcee50 jayne15912
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ozcat jayne15912
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Mikefen jayne15912
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I posted earlier that I had been feeling down and I think mainly because of m job. To be fair my MD had not put pressure on me but I had on myself. I am a sales Director but I am mainly office based in the West Midlands 70 miles from home in the North West. I drove in a week last Thursday and again on the Monday and Thursday of the next week and it was a big mistake. I was putting myself under uneccessary pressure which in the long run had got me down until this morning and I decided to call the boss and say that I needed to slow down.
Luckily he agreed and I am working from home. Not so easy for you.
I had a good moan on the forum this morning but I'm ok now!
At 7 weeks you are still very early so don't be bullied.
Your health is more important than your job and just being unable to walk properly is a huge thing for anyone. I sure that they canno sack youand its awful that they are putting you under such pressure.
I would seek some advice but I would doubt that they can force you. The Op is a big challenge and I bet your boss would not be so unpleasant if he had gone through it.
Keep positive and good luck.
Mike
debbie02705 jayne15912
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sewbgal jayne15912
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susan20089 jayne15912
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sally58158 jayne15912
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Acas are absolutely brilliant for this and helped me out. You are not fit yet and this is bullying. They have absolutely no idea what this op entails. You have been signed off pure and simple. Please do not be pressured into doing yourself possible harm. I know its hard I have been there but you are not obliged to do this trip due to being signed off. Do get in touch with your doc or call Acas. You could use some support. Take care of yourself. They will not.
Sneakles jayne15912
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I am 14 weeks from Microfracture and cartilage repair surgery and this will be my first full week back at work. I've been finding that sitting for more than one hour makes my knee feel stiff and sore. I am able to put the leg up onto another chair at work, but it's not really elevating it high enough and I've had to rely on instant ice packs as we have no freezer facility at the office.
If you can phase your return to work gradually, it will probably do you more good in the long run - at 7 weeks it's more important to make sure you're keeping a regular exercise regime and focusing on getting your movement back, in my view.
I also had some pressure to return back full time earlier than I felt really ready but was able to phase my return which seems to have helped me.
Good luck!
anne07663 jayne15912
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13 weeks post tkr