7 weeks post AP an now have posterior prolapse
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Hi ladies,
I am reasonably new to this forum, haven't shared much but have had comfort in reading your comments & apologise upfront as this is going to be long winded.
I had an anterior repair nearly 7 weeks ago & about 3 weeks ago started feeling much better when what seems overnight I started having trouble emptying my bowels & feeling "different" down there. Like the prolapse had come back. I contacted my surgeon & booked in to see him.
He advise me that the surgery to fix the anterior prolapse had gone well however he could see a rectocele buldge. He said it wasn't at the entrance to the vagina. I was then advise to continue to not lift anything more than 5kg for a few weeks & then nothing more than 15kg. I do recall he mentioning u had a rectocele at my initial consultation however he advised that did not need to be operated on. So frustrated that this could have been dealt with.
My symptoms have become worse in the past week. I feel like I am sitting in an egg. My AP always felt kind of soft where as this is quite hard.
My family & I went out for dinner for the first time since my surgery & within in hour I was ready to go home. I could feel "the egg" moving down. When I fit home I immediately headed to the bathroom. The urge was there but I had trouble voiding. I felt around & to my shock I could feel quite a firm buldge nearly at the entrance of my vagina.
I am totally devastated. I cried to my husband & my poor son over heard. He is 14 & ended up in tears.
Due to go back to work tomorrow & totally petrified.
Could the rectocele progressed this quickly?
Is there anything I could do to make it better?
The thought of another operation is making me sick.
Any advise would be greatly appreciated & once again apologies for the vent.
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Imnotadoctor Zoki
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This forum has been really helpful in helping me decide what to do but until last week I hadn't met anyone else who had had it done. I was in hospital last week for a small operation (not related to this) & I was chatting to one of the nurses. She had A & P repair done about 10 years ago & said she felt like a "new woman" I wish I could have spent more time talking to her but she was very positive about it all.
Pelvic floor exercises can help strengthen the area. Get good advice as your surgery was quite recent so you need to make sure you have properly recovered first. Good luck.
Zoki Imnotadoctor
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Did you posterior prolapse progess this soon after your anterior surgery?
I wish I had found this forum before my operation. I feel like I went into it so blindly & thinking it was going to be an easy recovery.
I have had every possible emotion from relief to total devastiion & sometimes on the one day lol
Being able to ask questions or read about experiences has been a godsend.
Hope you keep us updated on your progress xxx
Imnotadoctor Zoki
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I started to notice a change about 3 months after the surgery I think. I have had lots of tests & have seen a colorectal consultant & specialist female physiotherapist. I have followed all the advice ie don't get constipated, correct position on the toilet (sounds mad but works!), pelvic floor exercises etc.
Specialist female physiotherapists are hard to find, I saw mine privately but she was very helpful. It's early days for you, make sure you are fully recovered first. X
robyn94818 Zoki
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Zoki robyn94818
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I too only discovered this forum 3 or 4 weeks in. All the ladies are lovely & offer great comforting advise.
When did you have your surgery?
robyn94818 Zoki
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Zoki robyn94818
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I had my procedure on the 6th April & was back to work today. Nice to get back to a normal daily routine. I had 6 weeks off work & didn't know how I'd handle it. All went well despite a very busy day with most of it spent in my feet.
Making a real effort to increase fibre in my diet to ensure I don't get constipated.
Hijadeonagro Zoki
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It's great that you finally wrote about your worries here in the forum! I understand you very well...
I'm from Spain, I had anterior repair 5 months ago and it happened almost the same as you, Imnotadoctor and Robyn, 2 months after surgery I noticed some problems with BM and the constant feeling of having something inside the rectum. I went to my gyn and he confirmed I have a rectocele, he told me not to worry, he would fix it with stitches, not mesh, he tranquilized me a lot. Now I have some problems with BM but I can manage them with stool softeners. Once a week I go to my physio and I do PF exercises daily. But Im sure that I will have the surgery (my gyn has scheduled it for June but I think I will postpone it until October because of my holidays' kid) I feel my anus area like fallen down, I don't know how to explain it, it´s not only the rectocele itself, it´s that when I have a BM I feel my anus area more down than it should be.
The answers to your questions are clear for me. Could the rectocele progressed this quickly? Yes. You have the experience of three women here. In fact, in my case, it has been developed only in 2 months.
Is there anything I could do to make it better? Yes. You can do PF exercises when your gyn gives permission to do it. They will help with sensations of bulge but the rectocele won´t disappear cos as my gyn told me we have a tendency towards prolapses, and sooner or later we will have to be operated, but the good news are that rectocele surgery is easy for them and it has good results.
I understand your feelings very well, you had the surgery thinking that it was the end of your suffering with bladder prolapses and everything, and now you are shocked by the fast progress of the rectocele. Its normal to cry and feel depressed, in fact I cried a lot when I noticed it but now Im much better. A bit nervious about the surgery but I know that with the help of the ladies here it is going to be easier than the anterior repair. Hugs!! 😘
Zoki Hijadeonagro
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I hope you keep us updated on your progress.
Sending you hugs xoxo