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Hi to all you lovely ladies, I am 9 week today post op, been to see the surgeon today and I was checked for urin infection iron and all was well, I then had to have the final check which was the speclam inserted by the doc to have a good look inside it was sore on the left a bit but other than that I was fine, surgery a success ( god I cried with joy) i exsplaind how many low points I had had through the start of the recovery when the doctor stopped me and said you are not recovers yet lady😬 She told me to slow the walking down a bit and still rest through the day it is a slow build up was her words.
she exsplaind I MUST not get constipated and movicol is excellent and some lady take this for life, no heavy lifting it is all about waight Bering slowly.
no carrieing shopping order on line.
no prolonged standing
if if I say from week 1/9 there have been points were I have thought I have done some damage when really it as been all about the healing.
if I could give one bit of advice I would find someone you feel you can talk to on the forum and talk to the, daily it does help.
lastly I would like to say thank you to Matron Phylis and welshgirl for all your kind words and support through the last 9 week
happy healing ladies👍💗💓💕😄
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amanda24609 Gillian22766
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Your update has made me cry! I'm so worried I've ruined it all already and I'm only 8 days in!
I hope your recovery carries on so positively and thanks for posting such a reassuring update! X
Gillian22766 amanda24609
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week one slept
week 2 turned over in bed thought my insides had moved and could feel a hard lump at the back, I went to the ward all was ok but I had a yeast infection
week 3 could not sit on my bottom Omg did I cry all I did was lay down cry and I felt like my vagina was falling out when I had a look it still looked really fleshy and very badly swollen but again I thought it had all failed.
week 4 pain bleeding stiches hanging
week 5 felt like I had a tapax stuck but could sit down and a very dull acing
week 6/7started to feel a lot better but stiches very tight still sometimes like somthing was there in my vagina
Week 8/9 low energey feeling lots better
i think we all feel it as failed and I don't think anyone can preper you for this operation only six month previous edit I had a hystorectomy and that was a breeze compared to this.
take two movicol a day parocitomel every four hours and two Ibuprofen keep on top of the pain and stool softer side do as little as possible and you will be ok take care Amanda big hugs
amanda24609 Gillian22766
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I'm sleeping fine and sleeping lesson the day; just constantly worrying.
I will try to be less anxious and re-read your post when I'm slipping!
Thank you so much x
Gillian22766 amanda24609
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kimberly Chambers the wronged is very good and an easy read, if matron was on she would advise you well.
if you want to ask any questions you are welcome to and I'd you want to keep them private the mail box under my name press on it and you can inbox me.
i know what it's like chic and it isn't nice to suffer in silence.
😇
Imnotadoctor Gillian22766
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VOWeaver Gillian22766
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Oh, amanda, PLEASE be good to yourself! Having this surgery makes you MISERABLE, and unfortunately it will be miserable for a long time! I felt like I had a pineapple shoved up my rear end for about six weeks.
The problem comes from the fact that the pelvis is a VERY vascular part of the body, and having surgery simply irritates the Hell out of everything, and your body gets VERY p*ssed off! You have enormous amounts of swelling, and until the swelling abates, you're going to hurt.
Take it easy. Walk, do little chores in small spurts (NO LIFTING!), and rest when you can. Use your prescribed pain medication! In my worst days, I'd end up just curling into a ball in the evening, and crying quietly.
It WILL pass. Your body will heal, and you'll have your life back!
~VOW
phyl_40063 Gillian22766
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Your almost there, only a few more weeks and you will feel the difference, but don't dash about thinking you can do it all (I did that forgetting that I still needed to be careful), was just overly excited about being given the all clear and good to go!
Take care,
Phyl x💖
Gillian22766 phyl_40063
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lisa52462 Gillian22766
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I was meant to be back at work this week but I managed to get another week off, but I still don't think in ready to go back Monday. I'm beginning to wonder if I'm over doing it, I'm not doing much but I am on my feet a bit pottering about, I've done 4000 steps today, this is less than half I did before my op 😁
Gillian22766 lisa52462
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i had a lot of pain in my bottom, I am 9 week today and am working from home on emai and phone but I could not go out to work yet.
if matron was on she would tell you the same rest rest rest
lisa52462 Gillian22766
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I'm truly fed up of feeling lousy though, can't do much with the kids and just mope around at home all day x
Gillian22766 lisa52462
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i am a regional director and travel national but I couldn't do that at the moment, I have to have a walk about every hour or I get sore underneath
please take care and especially picking the children up have you got some help at home ?
phyl_40063 lisa52462
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Recovery rates they give us are unrealistic, repairs are major surgery and your body needs time to heal. Stitches not coming out till about 6 weeks and some take 12 weeks. Deep tissues takeon the to heal.
Need to rest majority of time in early weeks that are crucial for healing.
Please take care,
Phyl x☺
phyl_40063
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Lululucky lisa52462
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But don't don't don't lift your kids yet, at least not from the floor. My surgeon told it's ok to lift them onto your knees if you sitting on the floor.
Fi-45 lisa52462
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lisa52462 Fi-45
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