Advice needed before I loose my mind again

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My last relationship ended at the grounds of anxiety and depression.

Anyway I've started dating recently I get really anxious I started chatting to someone and we have great chats.

Her said things like he really likes me etc

We talked a lot but been on a date and going on a second I notice he's still on a dating site..he said he was over it when off and now is back on it...I can't help but think maybe he's not interested in me or I've done something to push him to look

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  • Posted

    Hello luv. I don't like it wen people lie :-(

    If he says he not on dating site but u no he is. You can do a lot better luv.

    I met a bloke N he sed the same 2 me but I not having lies :-(

    Come luv smile N u can do better x

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  • Posted

    He needs to come clean with you. If he is in a relationship with you he should not be on this dating site. 

    You have a right to make up your mind do you really want to date this guy who went off the dating site or and then back on. 

    This is not the right guy for you if he is back on this dating site. 

    If i were you i would hold off on dating until you know that you are stable enough to handle a new relationship. 

    Take care of your own needs first then the right guy will come a long 

    Take care will keep you in my prayers 

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  • Posted

    Ive been through this exact same thing. First of all make sure you are officially a couple otherwise they can still be on a dating site. If you are then he needs to take it down. If not, give him the boot and don't look back. Trust me I dated a guy 5 months and he took his profile down but within weeks it was back up. Woman's intuition. Trust your gut.
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    • Posted

      To clarify though I was officially a couple with guy of 5 months. Just because you go on a couple dates with someone does not mean they are your boyfriend. That discussion actually needs to take place. Don't assume anything.
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    You didnt do anything.he is looking for something maybe he feels he hasnt found yet. Dont be discouraged you basically just met. You keep looking yourself as well. Be real careful what you want in a person too. You dont need to settle
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