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julie1111
julie1111

hi all feel all alone again, started groups and doing well , now feel drained and alone as i helped someone and when i needed help she wasnt there, had a meeting with her today and couldnt believe the things she said now i feel i dont belong there and people are ignoring me, whats wrong with me? help need advice. julie

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  • Choochoochick
    Choochoochick julie1111

    Posted

    Why do u feel alone Hun? I feel alone all the time even when there are a hundred people around , what do you suffer from I suffer from health anxiety ?
    • julie1111
      julie1111 Choochoochick

      Posted

      hi lindsey thanks for reply, i suffer with healthy anxiety also, i go to groups with people with mental health and i befriended a girl and was put in a terrible situation when her friends was getting sectioned i have never experienced this i was her carea she looks at me as mum, i went into a meeting with her today as i was drained and upset as she wasnt there for me on friday , i feel i dont belong but the centre and groups have saved my life x
    • Choochoochick
      Choochoochick julie1111

      Posted

      I would love to go to a meeting but it's really hard for me to find one that's relevant in my area , I would just like to know how others feel and if it's the same as me I might then begin to accept the fact that I have anxiety and that I'm not alone or going crazy etc, I hate my feelings at the mo and I just want to enjoy my beautiful lil baby without the worry and thought in my head that all these symtoms are going to really hurt me and that it is just anxiety !!! sad
  • roseyellow
    roseyellow julie1111

    Posted

    Your not alone, We are hear,(I am) . Some-times when we try to reach out for Help from someone we "HELPED" they are not there for us. I believe they do not mean to turn us away, they are just afraid that they might not be at a point where they can "HELP". Because of there on situation.

     I am hear for you if you need an ear.

    • julie1111
      julie1111 roseyellow

      Posted

      thank you rosey means alot i feel silly she really didnt know how i was feeling , she yapped the energy out of me x
  • gillian20097
    gillian20097 julie1111

    Posted

    Awe Julie.. you are just feeling vulnerable,lost and lonely.

    It's made even worse when we help people and they accept that help but are nowhere to be seen when you need a little help.

    Thats not your problem. You need to continue with your groups because you have as much right to be there as anybody else. Don't be pushed out or allow others to make you feel isolated. You deserve and need to be there.

    The person you helped..just visually marked it up as one for the experience and don't make the mistake of helping her again. She's obviously only concerned about herself so repay the compliment by only having your own best interest at heart. True friends will come and be there for you because they want to be.

    You just keep moving forward and don't let selfish people hamper your progress xxx

    • julie1111
      julie1111 gillian20097

      Posted

      thank you gillian i have told a worker from centre few mins ago she said its a form of bullying and that she will come with me to see the owner , this girl and her friend lied to the police to get her sectioned i witnessed it all and the centre need to know its made me ill i was doing so well your advise is so true thank you xx 
  • richard89308
    richard89308 julie1111

    Posted

    you know there will always be knock backs when you help loads of people.  Just think of how many you have helped here on this website.

    Don't feel alienated.  there are people out there to talk to.

    Richard

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