Anxiety help please

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I’ve been doing really well for ages and now I’m in a rut I can’t get out of! My boyfriend owns 2 businesses. Spends his days at one and his evenings and weekends at the other with regular discussions with one of his staff members on ways to improve the business etc. I think my insecurities are getting to me and now I’m grinding him down ‘moaning’ so he stopped communicating with me. Now I’m anxious I just feel even needier and it’s horrible!

I’ve lost one stone 4ib since it started again and called in sick to work twice so far!!

Anyone in this position or just anyone able to help with advice?

Thank you

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    Hi Carla...seems to me you are bored with your life...Have you got any friends, you could have over, or go out for a meal with...try to have a life of your own...Doing things you enjoy...your boyfriend seems to be caught up in his work...but if he sees you making a life of your own...he just might see you in a different light....he is not being fair to you.., you need a enjoy..make your life enjoyable...dont expect someone else to do it...believe me he will respect you all the more for it..xxxx

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      I really appreciate your reply! Its the most realistic response and only way I'm actually going to make myself feel better! thank you so much 😃

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