Anxiety is back
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Just needed a place to reach out tt. I haven't went through severe in years and about 2 months ago it returned. Been to Er probably every weekend. No desire to really leave the house or do anything. Always feel sick anxious noone really understands in my house. I wish it would just go away so I could get back to normal. Just feeling overwhelmed
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pearlie71209 tammy64237
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It's so hard when you feel isolated, either physicaly isolated in one's home or emotionally isolated from those around you. The outside world can feel really scary too, not sure when and if something will happen that will trigger more anxiety.
Did something happen that triggered the anxiety?
tammy64237 pearlie71209
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Not sure one specific thing. And I think unless you go through it its hard to understand..I always think something's wrong with me...in just trying to fight it hard this time..thanks for responding its my first time on here
pearlie71209 tammy64237
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It's my first time on here, too
I TOTALLY agree - it is really hard when other people around you haven't been through it. People are like, "just get over it", "don't think about it.", "stop worrying", "it'll be fine." Like, if I could just stop worrying, don't you think I would have done that already?! And, at least for me, that brings on feelings of guilt and shame or, kind of like what you're saying, feeling like there's something wrong with me for feeling that way. It's really, really hard.
rosemary_22241 tammy64237
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Each day will get easier I promise
Set yourself small goals
Talk to us we understand x
tammy64237 rosemary_22241
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Thank you. That's why I reached out on here.
rosemary_22241 tammy64237
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cia42277 tammy64237
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You are abslolutely right....if someone hasn't been here they can NOT understand, including medical people unless anxiety is there field or they havs had a great deal of experience with patients with anxiety problems. I was a counselor for 43 years and never had the faintest idea until it hit me...hard.
When I finally went to urgent care I thought I was going to die, go insane or have a stroke.(I now know those kind of thoughts are common with anxiety.) I was fortunate to get the right doctor who recognized where I was and prescribed a med that changed my life at that point. Within a week I was thinking clearly enough to help myself. In doing so, I found this forum where I learned what my problem was and many ways to help myself.
Everyone on this forum has been where you are; we all understand. Even if for a short time, I suggest you first get on some medication that will calm you enough that you can think clearly. You will be alright....actually, you are already alright, but just don't know it yet.
Think about my suggestion, and let us know how you are doing. There are many wonderful people here who are rooting for you, as we root for each other. Take care, Tammy
kimberly59704 tammy64237
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If at some time in the past,we have had anxiety, the nasty bugger will usally come back when we least expect it. And if we let it go on long enough, it soon blows into full blown panic attacks. Did you get on a antipressant? Hope so. Don't fight this alone, not worth it. Once you get on the right meds, you will be fine again.
lisalisa67 tammy64237
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tammy64237 lisalisa67
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sue58256 tammy64237
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helen20833 tammy64237
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I remember when I first experienced anxiety disorder. I felt frightened and alone, didn't know what was happening to me and felt sure I had some awful physical life threatening illness. Worse still no one understood. There was that "Pull yourself together " attitude that made me feel worse and ashamed.
I got through that and recovered and swore I would never be in that "dark" place again.
Needless to say my anxiety disorder came back, slowly, insiduously and I was back to square one. AD has a habit of doing that. Striking when you least expect it. But the difference this time was I had the tools to fight it.
The first thing you have to do is accept that you will not find an answer at the ER. The answer lies within yourself. You have to find the determination not to let the symptoms crush you into feeling helpless and apathetic.
You have anxiety disorder. Plain and simple. If you read about the subject, arm yourself with as much knowledge about your illness as you can, then you can begin to help yourself.
This site will be invaluable. Everyone will rush to help, to reassure you. We are your support system. We all help each other when help is needed. All we have to do is reach out to each other. We will all help you!
tammy64237 helen20833
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rosemary_22241 tammy64237
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