Anxiety of seeing a Dr
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I have a health problem that should be looked at, however, I get sweats and nausea even thinking about going to see about it. I've had this problem for a few years now and it is quickly getting out of control.
I can't even drive past the surgery without my hear rate increasing, sweating and nausea, and as my kids school is on the same road as the surgery I can't avoid it.
I have developed a big distrust in Dr's and nurses, I cant bare the thought of having to go to the surgery, hospital or have any form of exam!
Help!!
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linda83143l iain18679
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I cant take injections or couldn't because I saw the nurse put the needle under a flame.
I was terrified.
Can you relate to when it started?
Xx
iain18679 linda83143l
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FozBear iain18679
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I know what I am about to suggest is a logical solution to an irrational problem (fear) so although it will probably make sense to you it is unlikely to reduce your concerns but I do hope it helps at least a bit.
You indicated that you have a health problem which should be checked out.The logical part of you knows this is an important thing to do because it may be something that needs treating and in most cases the sooner something gets treated the better especially if it is a serious issue (which it probably isn't )
The fear of going to the doctor will have a limited timespan. Ie mainly while you are there and probably the lead up to the appointment.The worrying you are currently having has no end date because you need to do something and as long as you don't you will keep worrying.
Here are a few ideas.
1/ Ask a family member or close friend to book the appt for you and perhaps have them come along with you to it.
2/A half hour or so before the scheduled appt time call or have your friend call to see if the doctor is running on time as they often don't.In this way you will spend the least amount of time in the waiting room which is often the most worrying part.I now do this with all of my appointments because I get anxiety being in the waiting room.If they tell me the doctor is running 15 minutes late then I go at that time and not before.
iain as hard as it is it just feels that you have much more to gain by taking the action you know you need to take rather than continue to worry about the health issue and the fact that you know you need to do something about it.
I really hope this is of some help to you.Cheers from Rick.
iain18679 FozBear
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My girlfriend has offered to make the appointment and go with me. Every time she tries to make the appointment I come up with an excuise on why I can't go on that day and as I work shifts there are usually severa days each weak where it is impossible to go anyway. Every time she tries to make an appointment I lose sleep over it.
My fear is that much of a problem, I'm even shaking now after reading the part about the appointment, waiting room etc
I'm 95% sure I have an inguinal hernia, I've done several tests on my self and know the landmark areas for the diagnosis. The only treatment is surgery, which I'm sure you can imagine doesn't go well on my mind.
FozBear iain18679
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I suggest you let your girlfriend make the appointment preferably as soon as possible to avoid extra time that you might worry.Prearrange a leave day from work or ask your girlfriend to call in sick for you on the day.Do everything you can in advance to reduce the option of backing out.Yes, this will probably create some fear and yes the night before you may not have the best sleep ever BUT once you have done it your girlfriend will be so proud of you and more importantly you can take massive pride in what you have achieved.There are some things I have been putting off for fear of anxiety on the day but giving you this advice has made me decide that I need to practice what I preach so I am going to face my fear just like you my friend.Please let me know how you get on.Please also keep thinking how you will feel After you have conquered the fear by having the appointment.Cheers for now from Rick
iain18679 FozBear
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As for a sick day from work, that would lead to all sorts of problems as they have no interest in the employees! I would end up having to go to a sickness review etc.
I expect the worse from the situation so it can only get better, however the negative experiences I have are also from a professional background. I've seen how unprofessional the NHS is as I work for them, this has made the problem so much worse over the years. To be blunt, I'm sh*tting myself!
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