Anxiety suicidal

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If been to the doctors with all my symptoms hot flushes missed 2 periods headaches nausea dizzy anxiety bloating I feel suicidal I feel pregnant iv done a test which was negative and goin for bloods next Friday I'm so so scared I'm pregnant and it's not peri menopause I 'm 43 and dint want any more children ibfrel like I'm goin mad someone plz help me

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    I am so sorry you are dealing with this!  Find yourself some Bachs Rescue Remedy and  some Bach's Cherry Plum.  You can find it at bachflower dot org (can't post link so 'dot' is the period.

    Those two will stop the anxiety and the suicidal thoughts in thier tracks.  I always have these two in my purse.  Take a few drops every day.  It is the only thing i found that helps with this.  There is a write-up on both at that site.

    Big Hugs...I know how terrifying that is!!  It WILL pass.  Try the remedies

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    don’t give up!!!!!! This to shall pass.... please call suicide help lines... or go to hospital..... don’t do anything tragic because these feeling will pass... menopause has MANY faces.... educating yourself and talking to others about menopause, I find, can also help. You are a good person... you are loved.... 

  • Posted

    Try to stay calm! Wait and see what the doctor says. Maybe they will suggest some hormones like bcp to help with your severe symptoms. If you took the pregnancy test and it was negative it’s most likely not that!
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    Please try to calm down. You are not alone! Is there anyone you can talk to - older women in your family maybe? These symptoms can be scary, but they are also typical of perimenopause. Wait and see how your tests come out. Meanwhile try to relax. Anxiety feed on itself! 
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    Hi Yasmin, I’m so sorry your feeling this way! But you are not alone. First you must breathe and calm yourself!  The more you internally stress the more intense your symptoms could get. You said you went to Gyno and said your not pregnant or you haven’t taken the blood test to determine if you are or not?  It could be your starting early  menapause or peri.  Those symptoms all sound hormonal.  Are those similar symptoms you had when you were pregnant? 

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    Yasmin 

    Hello 

    I’m in the same boat but tried to relax . I feel pregnant all the time and my stomach is big on the top. And I just take a deep breath. Tried to find something to ease your mind . We are all here for you and ourself for confort . 

    • Posted

      Hi Elaine! Did you get exams by Gyno?  Just wanna be realistic, major bloated ican be a symptom of cancer. I’m tested all the time cause of Ibs bloating, sorryto be negative . Just care!
    • Posted

      I get tested every year . I have a hiatal hernia and I think I Ággavated doing the lawn and I have an appointment tomorrow w my GYN. 

    • Posted

      It is extremely unlikely to be camcer and I think it is not a great idea to say such a thing to someone that seems to be struggling so much.
    • Posted

      Thanks DearDoe and Mauible

      I freak out so much and I know I got tested for several years I had a endocospy in 2016 and colonoscopy 2 months ago. And numeros test all normal. 

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      gosh, no, if a bloated stomach were cancer then we’d ALL have it!! I was worried about that too, but when I lost all that weight last year, my food baby disappeared! 

      Also, my friend doesn’t eat gluten because she says that causes her to bloat. And whacked hormones can cause it, I never know where I’m at in my cycle and bloated all the time. Plus my food baby is back since I put the 30 pounds back on. 

      If you’ve had a colonoscopy and see your gyn, no need to panic about cancer! 

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