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hi
anyone else find that certain places cuase more issues. im finding that the says im in the office are much worse, i work from home 3 days a week 2 in office. i find that my anxiety is way worse when im in the office. this is where my stress element has been coming from in the first place, is this why. anyone else like this ?
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During my first month or so anywhere outside, especially the town, was very difficult to cope with and I couldn't believe it was happening to me! It took me a while, even with Ann, my Fiancee, accompanying to go far or stay out for long.
Until my GP signed me unfit for work, I was getting by each day (in total denial) by increasing my social life or totally withdrawing, drinking, smoking and eating comfort food. I was spiralling down and down, killing myself because the work situation and one or two eejits there! I had my own office (with window) and could distance myself from the other two managers, one in particular who was undermining me.
So yes, in answer to your question the work element is a major factor with your stress. As far as I can see they are not being responsible for showing a (legally required) duty of care for your welfare, while at work, by the conditions you have to work in.
I appreciate that you want to wait until after an event so, best prep yerself for that new job and perhaps when you do leave give them something to buck there ideas up by reporting them - you never know they (in my humble opinion) should compensate you for your illness obviously (if not) caused by them, then exacerbated by them.
Got those posters up yet matey?!
Regards,
David
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In a way I let it happen to me, although I was making complaints and tried talking with and getting sense out of the Chair of our Trustees for 3 years before I crashed. I was compensated with a small amount, but was advised I should take it further and screw them. I was too ill and weak, but I wished I had. At the end of the day, I have no regrets over not screwing them as what goes around comes around!
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Anyone that has never failed has never acheived anything to be truthful! Until we fail how do we know what is right, or the best way to do things or be ourselves?
Lunch up have to go, later Dude!
David
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