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Bleeding after sexual contact but no penetration

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love04390
love04390

My boyfriend and i both virgin. Last year we decided to have sex. When he inserted hard his on me, it so hurt and we don't get wet or lubricating enough so we stop and only the head of his penis just got inserted. But when going home after we did, i bleed and it last 3 days, like spotting. I'm afraid but that time. What does it mean? Help please.

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  • ml66uk
    ml66uk love04390

    Posted

    I don't think the bleeding would be a serious problem if it was very light.

    Having sex the first time isn't as easy as most people expect, especially if it's the first time for both partners.  If (when?) you try again, I'd recommend you take it very slow (not easy, I know), and use lube.  Do you have problems inserting fingers or tampons?

     

    • love04390
      love04390 ml66uk

      Posted

      Can i possibly bleed again, if we sex then by that time he inserted whole of his penis ? Could this again be normal?
    • love04390
      love04390 ml66uk

      Posted

      I can insert one finger, it hurt a little bit because i have a small hole.
    • love04390
      love04390

      Posted

      Thank you for your answer
    • ml66uk
      ml66uk love04390

      Posted

      Postcoital bleeding isn't particularly unusual, especially the first two or three times.  If it's anything up to heavy spotting, it isn't normally a sign of a problem.

      If it hurts even to insert one finger though, then I'd consider seeing a doctor, as an erect penis is typically a lot larger, and it's likely to hurt a lot, and not be in any way enjoyable for you or your boyfriend.  Have you ever had a Pap smear btw?

      These links may help, though the second two are written for doctors:

      https://patient.info/health/dyspareunia-pain-having-sex

      https://patient.info/doctor/dyspareunia

      https://patient.info/doctor/vaginismus

  • jamila86904
    jamila86904 love04390

    Posted

    Hi love, may be the Hymen was raptured. Don't worry it is normal. But if the blood stain continues, consult ur doctor.

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