boyfriend confusing me
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hi i been with my boyfriend nearly 3 mths we both have history of depression ,he became distant with me i asked has he lost interest in me ,he said he dont no how he feels anymore but that hes stressed out with alot of problems at the minute with work and other stuff and kept saying its not my fault ...i took this as a break up text and my sister gave him hell with it than i get a text saying he has not broke up with me he has no plans to be finished with me and that everything has got out of control made his day worse and today ive not heard nothing off him..ive been a mess cant eat have not got out bed all day this is making me ill why is he doing this to me what can i do
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tess33005 sarah67295
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If he doesn't call you or contact you, then you'll know for sure that he isn't interested in your elatiionship any longer.
I know it's heartbreaking but you need to be strong and wait till a better man asks you out.
sarah67295
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tess33005 sarah67295
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Don't lete him back into your life - he won't change.
sarah67295 tess33005
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allison30388 sarah67295
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lillie46665 sarah67295
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Lil
tess33005 lillie46665
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And Allison's suggestion that they go to couples counselling is spot on. I have a feeling this man will not agree to go, leaving Sarah to be even more upset and distressed. I don't WANT Sarah to feel any worse than she already does - of course not - but at least she will find out if her boyfriend has strong enough feelings to go with her.
lillie46665 tess33005
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I know it is hard enough for me to get through the day without having someone else with the same problem to help
Just my thoughts
Take Care
Lil
tess33005 lillie46665
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My own depression lasted three years, but I recovered. I actually recovered 17 years ago, and the depression never came back. Love Tess
tess33005 sarah67295
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Some of us have posted some suggestions which we hope will help you. If things get worse, please come back to the forum so that we can support you. Love Tess
Leah55 sarah67295
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What you CAN do is not have your total identity in a man! I speak from experience! Please don't give that power to him! Live for YOU! Be the wonderful young woman God made you to be and let him work on his issues. If he's "messing with your mind," don't let him. Be yourself. Make goals for yourself, even if it's just day by day. I myself have to take each day as it comes. We're here for you. Leah