Can I run away for the holidays?

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I know I can't but geez the thought has crossed my mind..  REALLY!!!    Wrap all the presents so it's not like I forgot about them ..  BUT wrap the presents and leave for a couple days!!  Or even check in at the hospital-- at least I can rest and watch TV and NOT have to deal with the stress..   Years ago I could do it all and not worry about a thing as it would get done.  As I'm getting older I turn into a absolute wreck

 

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  • Posted

    Lol I know what you mean kelly, me too... I still love Xmas, but can’t be arsed if that makes sence...

    I use to love getting  out there Xmas shopping ( or any shopping) but not now, no way, Iv done all my gifts on line this year, as I can’t be botherd getting mixed up in the shops with every one, just does my head in now, I’m only 53, but feel like 83 sorry you to feel this way, big hug 🤗x 

    • Posted

      YES YES YES   I defiantly feel like 83!!  I have done most of the shopping but I'm a nervous wreck for some reason. 

  • Posted

    you wont be the only one feeling that way... ive told them im not going anywhere and no one is coming here...  Just cant deal with all the hassle and stress.  Done the presents  etc..  now im finished they can all go party and do whatever they want  smile  
    • Posted

      That is awesome!!    But that is how I feel--  I have the gifts, and can bake cookies..  Just take them and go away.  
    • Posted

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

      Here, here! Not doing a thing. Going to my sister's house Christmas Day, to hang and chat a bit. My oldest sister is going to stay in bed and watch tv. We're over it. (We're All postmenopausal).

  • Posted

    Me too so feel the same way as you guys I’m 52 in perimenopause and just can’t be arsed with any of it bah humbug 🤪 havin to deal with so many different symptoms everyday is hard enough work without having to put a big smiley face on for everyone at Christmas when really I would rather be in the Maldives on my own for s month really can’t be bothered with all this sending hugs to all you lovely strong stressed fed up ladies 🤗🤗🤪xxx

    • Posted

      Here here. I am 48 but can't cope with it all. Too much. Sending you all the best vibes.

    • Posted

      Can I join you in the Maldives too😌... I could just lock myself away for the next 6mths or more if possible, big hug to all you lovely ladies out there 🤗x

  • Posted

    I know I'm not alone and I don't know why I get so stressed out..   X-mas eve party with in-laws then Xmas Day party with my side..  I'm blessed and it should be fun BUT I would rather hide...  ha ha   Anyways, thanks for responding and I will somehow get thru..  : )   I ordered some natural stuff from on-line that is supposed to help with aniexty...   

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