Combo thrombosed internal and prolapsed external hemorrhoid

Mine was so painfu, I would have to pull the car over just to lay in the back and cry. I was in pain most of the day. I declined surgery as the doctor said all I needed was ointments and extra fiber. After two months it got worse. I ended up going in- however I was wheeled in because I couldn’t walk. I ended up having the surgery and for the first 1 week I regretted it! I remember being in the tub and couldn’t move due to the pain. The 9th day I was back to normal. Surgery was completely worth it! 

In the long run you will be pleased with the outcome. 

Firstly, you poor guy - the pain is so bad and totally consuming. Totally hear where you're coming from but i'd say go for the surgery. I read all these posts and almost cancelled my surgery and i'm so glad i didn't.  I had my surgery  2 days ago, and they surgically excised the exterior prolapsed ones and did a surgical stapling of the interiors ones. The most painful thing so far has been the gas build up from the lactulose stool softeners. Yes the first bowel movement was painful but it's soft and fast to pass. let's face it though... they're painful when your in the pain you're in now anyway. Having just had the surgery i honestly believe the pain your going through now will be worse than the actual recovery from surgery.  The other things is.... you'll be worried when it's going to happen again in the future.. and it will. Bite the bullet, book in, and within  a few days you'll be well on the road to permanent recovery. I think i'm one of the lucky ones as it's day 2 and i can walk around way better than i could when i was going through what you're going through now. I totally get that is a scary ballsy decision but people living with the pain of what your doing through now are already strong and able to handle the worst.  The blogs and all the reading will put you off (trust me ... i was obsessed with them trying to find a positive glimmer) so that's why i thought i'd share my not-so-bad story with ya as, like i said, day 2 and i'm at home and in way less pain that i was prior.  Good luck with whatever choice is right for you at the moment.

Hi, I have had the surgery but was sick after the operation so was kept in over night which was the best thing for me. They do not let you out until you can pee. The first bm movement is sore but with the lactive it just comes out slowly and the next one you will know what to expect. First week you just have to take things slowly and I sit in a bath after each movement and have plenty of showers. The pain does get less. You will have to wear sanitary towel for leakage for a few weeks. I am day 11 and only have slight pain nothing like day one. My was grade 3 also had a skin tag.

Best of luck but I would get the operation.

Where would your operation be at ???