Confused
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Okay ladies I am so frustrated...and confused! I had my two week post op visit today. The doctor basically just asked me how i'm doing, as he said it was much too soon to insert a speculum or do an exam. (Which I was perfectly agreeable to him not doing by the way!!). When he was about to leave the room my dh asked him what my activity level should be now and until my next visit at six weeks. The doctor said no lifting or squatting/bending, but other than that I should be able to start adding back in all my normal usual activities now..."just listen to your body."
Im frustrated for a couple of reasons. One...everything I have read says that women should be mostly off their feet for several weeks, but hes saying jump back into your life now. And secondly, having said that to my dh, I feel like the expectation will now be that I do just that and if I continue to keep my feet up and take it easy Im afraid I will be perceived as lazy or as if I'm just milking it the situation for all its worth. I am two weeks post op, 49 years old. Should I in reality be ready to start adding in all my usual activities?
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rosieod1 tlee
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48yearold tlee
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I am now 12 weeks post op back on work and more or less back to normal. Still no lifting yet and haven't started excecising again.
Lyn2015 tlee
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OK, no don't jump back in! The crucial bit of advice is 'listen to your body!' I'm 13 weeks post op, didn't drive for 8 weeks, or work for 10 weeks, as I'm a therapist who works with SPLD and it's fairly physical & lots of standing. I'm still not lifting normally, if I go to pick something up and it feels heavy I put it straight down, however I notice I'm doing bit more week by week. When I first started back @ work was very tired and came home & had a nap before cooking dinner!
I'm still not excercising and as yet penetrative sex was very uncomfortable,so sorry hubby, little bit longer!!
So listen to your body and you will fell better week by week, everybody heals at different rates, my GP said won't be completely healed for 6 months you have had major surgery after all! I for one am not rushing things, as although it get frustrating, really would rather avoid going through the op again!! Take care
donna68613 tlee
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I had my op in oct. My doc was the same he said apart from lifting i could do everything as i used to. I took advice from here though as i would not want to go through this again (I'm 39). thinking of the future whats 6-10 weeks for recovery its nothing. So just take your time. I felt fine after 3wks and propably could have done everything but what if it went wrong. Think long term.
I feel good now i have a check up next month.
Listen to advice and your body and dont rush.