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Hi im 23, I haven’t graduated yet from university. The problem is i feel low esteem to friends of mine, like they all have graduated, get a great job, skillful, and achieving their best life. Here i am living this life with fear of the future, cause i have no

Experience like i dont know what i’m good at. I was wrong to choose majors so i don’t know what will i gonna be, the only thing i entusiast is language but it needs money to support. Like i feel useless when I compared with my friends, the question of “whenwill u gotta work ? Where ? Am i capable ?” Haunted me all the time. Its hard to explain but it does break down my mental.

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    Sound like you have to much time on your hands. Check into being a tutor. Lots of groups probably some on depression. Most of the universities are a big help with starting clubs if there are none available. Also check with the sports department at your school. Have fun. Well not so much that you are to drunk or high to go to class. Also whatever field you go into you need to do your own research not rely on counselors. Their job is to get kids in class and that gives them a job. Stop comparing yourself to others. They are not you. Each of us have our own path to follow so chill out. If you have not seen a professional or have insurance the school might have one that can get you some meds. 
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