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My husband died 6months ago
i nursed him for 15yrs as he was very very severely disabled
I'm desperately looking for work, I'm 57 and no one seems to want me, ive bern off the marketfir so long
but i need the money or im not going to manage
went to 4 agencies today and every time i start to explain, i started crying, they were very nice but i felt such a fool and alone in this
considering joining him., im so tired
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Esmay Guest
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Ah Sophie man you're still grieving. Someone will want you, you have a lot to offer but you need to get some help for yourself first.
Please go and see you GP and see if he can help you, please.
I haven't been through the same as you but I know how it feels to feel so low. Please don't do anything, well, you know.
I don't always know what to say but I'm here if you need me.
Sending big hugs xx
sam18386 Guest
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Aw your post has made me sad! You poor thing I'm really sorry your poor husband was snatched from you at such as young age! You need time to readjust your life without your husband being there. Take time for you, never mind work. Just try to find something nice for you every day and like the lady who has made the other comment on here, never mind anything else. When my dad was taken at 66, 5 years ago he took a part of each of us with him. I had counselling off LOROS, a local Leicestershire hospice who look after people and their families in their last few months, weeks, days or even the final few hours of their lives. They said to me that grief and readjustment of living without that person takes up to 2 years to get used to! Look after your self and make sure you have support around you. I really feel for you - it may not have been my husband that I lost but I do have some empathy!
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