Deja vu

Could I just point out and I speak from personal experience, your choice of words " if you like hurting yourself " are rather offensive and ill informed and as such could cause distress, I appreciate you may not have any knowledge surrounding self harm and the reasons for it but I can assure you NO ONE LIKES to self harm it is a coping strategie, not a healthy one granted but is way more complicated x 

Could I just point out and I speak from personal experience, your choice of words " if you like hurting yourself " are rather offensive and ill informed and as such could cause distress, I appreciate you may not have any knowledge surrounding self harm and the reasons for it but I can assure you NO ONE LIKES to self harm it is a coping strategie, not a healthy one granted but is way more complicated x 

I totally agree with you Crazycat.

Richard please think before you post.

You have no conception or idea of Self Harm. Your remark was offensive.,AGAIN.

Good for you hun, hope today is a better day for you x 

xx

This is a place for people to come and get support, shouldn't be causing tension over difference of opinion, especially on someones thread.

What you 'think' people need to see isn't what some people need, not everyone is the same and we all deal with this in our own ways and rightly so x

Nothing more real than this illness as I'm sure you would agree and you are entitled to your opinion as that is all we have on here, personal experience based opinions to be taken or left as we choose x 

Richard, everyone has their own opinions, I do not feel crazycat was offensive to you.

Sometimes you have to have knowledge about things ie Self Harm.

Its a way of release for them, ok not a goid way but if it helps.

I find personally that you have been offensive on quite a few forums.

We are here to support so please do that. If you have no knowledge just say that and wish them the best.

Aaaarrrrrggghhhhh

Hi Richard 

I can asure you I have made no judgments  regarding you and have not said that you " don't care " 

I was merely pointing out that some of your wording could be counter productive, as I said in my original response to you, I personally found your wording uncomfortable and to be honest offensive now this is not to say, like I said in my second response, that you are not entitled to your point of view, of course you are, all I would say is that as you say, you care then show that without the bluntness, it doesn't work for everyone I'm afraid 

Much consideration x 

I back Crazycat 100%.

No we,are not too sensitive, but when as you have come into a forum with your blunt,

insensitive manner.,......