Depressed Partner Need Advice
Posted , 5 users are following.
My boyfriend has always had bouts of depression, when he does he leaves the house and moves out back to his parents but this usually only lasts for a few days and comes back to normal. This time he moved out and left 5 weeks ago now and told me he needs to get seriously better because he's lost himself, he sees a counsellor once a week and he started taking tablets a couple of weeks ago. I've seen him twice in 5 weeks so I've had to cope being on my own in the house. I text him everyday wanting to help and try to understand it more so he doesn't have to leave to go to his parents each time, most days he will just go mad at me which makes me angry and we have an argument. He asks me to leave him alone and give him space but I just find it so hard and only text to see if he's doing ok. He now doesn't know whether he wants to be with me anymore all because I've cared and text him when he's asked me to give him space. Does anyone know what I can do? Shall I give him the space like he's asked? Do you think it's the depression talking? How can I help him? I have suffered with depression myself but only mild so I can't understand the severe side of it that he's feeling and I'm feeling very confused. All I want to do is help :-(.
1 like, 7 replies
shiraz46473 Ashleigh26691
Posted
Ashleigh26691 shiraz46473
Posted
sandy_so_sad Ashleigh26691
Posted
My partner left me 10 day ago saying he's depressed . He got nasty and said he doesn't love me no more 20 years down the drain.
He's text his daughter once. I phoned him all he say he want people to leave him alone.
That what I'm going do if he loves me he'll come back I've told him my doors always opens to him.
I miss him I'm lonely but I have to allow him to get well.
Now I'm depressed
Ashleigh26691 sandy_so_sad
Posted
Oh no that must be so hard, especially after 20 years plus you have children together. Mine is 5 years and it's bad enough plus no children together. It's very difficult to leave them alone when you feel like it's because they don't love you not the depression. But I'm starting to feel the same as you, depressed and anxious 😢.x
sandy_so_sad Ashleigh26691
Posted
Sometime when they're depressed they hate themselves and have very low self esteem and reflect there anger and frustrations on us unfortunately. I still believe my partner does love me but I won't wait 4 ever unfortunately he won't seek medical help. And I can't go through this pain and torment again. I feel for my daughter the most.
wayne1962 Ashleigh26691
Posted
Ashleigh26691 wayne1962
Posted
Thank you Wayne. Appreciate the advice. I'm going to leave him be and hope for the best.