Depression and Work
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I'm just looking for a little advice because I feel completely lost. I suffer from severe depression and generalized anxiety disorder. I took some time off work and started seeing a therapist, which is really helping. Basically, I hadn't been in my job long, so because of my long absence they have just written to me saying they are terminating my contract as I didn't pass the probationary period. I was expecting this to happen anyway but it has made me feel so bad. I don't know what to put on my CV and I think as soon as any employer learns what happened they won't consider hiring me at all. When I told my doctor about it, he wasn't going to bother giving me a sick line, he told me to register for job seekers allowance. I'm worried if I do this I will be pushed into another call centre role, which contributed to my problems in the first place. And if I work full time then I wont be able to continue getting help by seeing a therapist etc. I have no idea what to do and it is making me feel a thousand times worse. I feel ashamed and worthless not working, but I also feel I need help in order to get better. I feel like I'm in a catch 22 situation because if I don't work then I'll have no money and then rent and bills and debt will just consume my life, but if I take on a full time job I cant handle, I will end up even more unwell. I'm only 24 and I feel like my life is heading no where. Any advice would be really appreciated. Thank you.
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SunnyUK83 Cee10
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If you do want to work and just don't want to work for a call centre, have you tried searching for some agencies near you? You can look for office work for example and there are specific agencies that cater to that type of employer.
Also I think if you are on a low wage, you can claim a top-up from the government, I'm not sure how this would work for part-time work (just thinking perhaps if you can't do full-time, perhaps part-time might be better) but I know that part-time work probably won't help towards all your bills.
Do you live alone? Renting or have your own place? As a last resort you could move back in with your parents if this is an option, it may give you some time to get better and not worry about bills etc.
It's definately important to get a job that doesn't drive you insane or make you depressed because of the workload and environment. Call centre work sounds incredibly stressful to me!!! But I've mostly worked in offices and even that is stressful. I'm currently retraining to get out of that line of work because it made me ill. I moved back in with my mum and she has been great at helping me.
What kind of what are you interested in?
Cee10 SunnyUK83
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Dolphin30 Cee10
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Sorry to hear you are finding it hard. You could just not put your last job on your C.V and explain the time period by saying that you went for example travelling. Try and find a job that you enjoy and that won't be too stressful although that's easier said than done. I know how you feel though. I've been through a similar experience. Just keep on keeping on. Try and be positive and productive. Good luck!
Cee10 Dolphin30
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