Depression made worse by breakup
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hi I'm 24 years old and recently split up with my girlfriend who I have been with for 4 years I've been suffering with slight depression and anxiety for a year now things had been going quite bad lost my job family moved away stop seeing my mates so all I had was her she meant the world to me but lately she's decided she wants more of a life with her mates instead of being with me which is unfair considering I lost most of my mates s because of her it's only been two days and they've been the worse two of my life I feel like there's nothing out there for me I dont wanna work watch tv or anythink I've barely eaten and ive bin drinkin both days since it happened its the only thing that makes me happy I have no one too see or talk to I really feel like this it for me
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holly_t luke1990
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rosejekyll333 luke1990
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I am so sorry you have had this awful experience. It can be so hard when you get dumped as I suffered very badly when my ex broke up with me - I had all your symtoms and felt like everything was pointless.
I know it will sound patronising to say that things will get better, so I'd rather say that things will change - you won't feel so unhappy forever, it will hurt for probably a long time but slowly it will ease off as time really does help you heal and reflect on everything.
Also maybe you need to make changes to be closer to your family or friend if this is possible. It can't be easy dealing with this by yourself and maybe you need someone to talk to just to let it all out hun.
I hope you feel a bit better my dear.
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UK-Ven-medicate luke1990
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you have to break chain if you can, it's not easy I know that but try to think about things you want to do. Also try not to allow the drink to be the norm. It's early doors and I appreciette it maybe a short term fix but it most definitely is not something you should do long term as alcohol is a depressant in its self
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holly_t luke1990
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Im afraid man or woman it doesn't matter in this day or age both sexes are as bad as each other I am afraid.
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Do you live together or did you ? It all to me smells fishy, the is a piece of the jigsaw missing. You say she is honest, but in really terms do yuo really think she tell you if their was someone else. put your self in her shoes, admitting that in essence makes her the bad one.