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My partner suffers from depression and I feel it is starting to affect us. We are a same sex couple and have been living together for a good few years now. We have been through a lot together over the past couple of years, which has definetly brought us together and made us stronger as a couple. In general, we are happy. We have always been very open with each other and have a very loving relationship. At the beginning it was great, she would touch me and she wanted me all the time. She couldnt keep her hands off me. Now, as her depression has got worse, she isn't like that at all. She never wants to have sex, I feel like I am constantly pestering her for it and even then I still dont get it. It seems like such a chore for her. She kisses me and cuddles me but when it comes to making love it just seems like I have to force her. Am I just there because she is scared of being on her own? This is really bringing me down. Does she still love me? I blame myself a lot, I feel like its me and that if I am not satisfying her then she might want someone else. I know she would never cheat on me but I cant help but think she might find someone better who makes her happy and that she is attracted to. I feel like she isnt attracted to me anymore, even though she tells me she is, it just seems shes not. I feel so lonely. What can I do to make things better?
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