Dont want sex anymore
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Since going throught the menapause and finding it uncomfortable to say the least, tried vagifem for dryness, it helped but had to stop taking it due to vaginal bleeding.
Thing is i really wouldnt care if i never had sex again, not interested and dont want to know, who would when it hurts all the time ! have a slight prolapse but dr. says nothing severe enough for surgery. Causing problems in relationship with hubby, any suggestions please, even if its to read im not on my own hear. also i have M.E. and aching legs, worse when laying down.
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michelle_1960 susan556
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susan556 michelle_1960
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liz53953 susan556
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michelle_1960 liz53953
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susan556 michelle_1960
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Lara66 susan556
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Like you, Susan, there was also a time when I went right off sex and I felt like I didn't care if I never had sex again but I wanted to have a healthy married life and so pushed through it. I realised that I still enjoy being desired by my husband. It makes me feel alive and I've decided I would miss it if I didn't have it. Don't get me wrong, my husband would say we don't have sex nearly as much as he would like (and when we do, it's often not penetrative because it is still uncomfortable sometimes) but it is still a part of our lives. Long may it continue.
Hope sharing my experience has helped x
susan556 Lara66
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liz53953 susan556
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kerry91 Lara66
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i can totally relate to what you're both saying. I'm 52 and in the perimenopause, my libido is dropping like a stone! this is a problem as my hubby is ten years younger than me. Like Lara I need to be desired it's really important to me so I'm keen to keep our sex life going, according to some sites if you don't use it you lose it! . I've just seen a product called 'replens' I think it's an American product which gets very good reviews, I may give that a go. I also think it helps to talk with our partners. Finally a word of advice from my mum who's been here, she told me there's more than one way of skinning a cat!
susan556 kerry91
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Hi kerry, well im still desired by hubby but it doesnt make any difference to me at all, theres lack of desire and lack of desire and pain, the two together dont make one exactly in the mood. even if it didnt hurt i still dont think ill be up for it. will try replens though thanks