Dreading the replacement
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Hi, I am schedulled to have a TKR on the 28th of this month, and I am dreading it. I have a zero pain threshold and the thought of being in so much pain is really frightening. I am not a squeemish person and take most things on the chin, but I can't deal with pain, which is clearly going to be a problem I am also concerned that I will not be able to cope once home, (especially so close to Christmas) When discharged have those of you who have already had surgery managed to get up and down stairs to bed, is it easy to change the white stockings, how soon can I expect to be walking reasonably well. I normally do a drinks party for everyone in my road just before Christmas, which is quite hard work, do you think I should forgo playing host this year, or maybe delay it until lte January? I am in North Somerset, any of you brave people near me?
Best wishes, Liz.
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britta217 liz34614
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most important: make sure your surgeon and gp are aware of your fear of pain and make sure they are generous with the pain meds. there are so many different pills out there, your pain CAN be managed.
i started managing stairs week two, with sticks, taking it one-by-one. but you have to be confident with the sticks so make sure you get physio sessions from the get-go so she can show you how to be as mobile as possible. but even with this, it is a struggle at first and tiring. so you may want to sleep downstairs the first couple of nights!
honestly, i would scrap the drinks party. i would be amazed and full of admiration if you felt you were able to host a party. if it was hard work before the op, then you simply not have the energy or the motivation to do this. concentrate all your energy on exercising, elevating and icing. believe me, you will have your hands full with getting better.
don't worry, you will get there. but i would be lying if i told you it is a walk in the park. we are all here for you to give you support every step of the way. and soon you will be one of us, post TKR!!
britta - 8 weeks post op!
CazDesmond liz34614
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Be selfish Liz, only think of yourself and what will be easiest and more comfortable for you. Put yourself first, if you can't manage the stairs, sleep downstairs. Don't even think of doing the drinks party, take any pressure off yourself.
You will probably be emotional and cry, lean on the people on this site. Nobody judges you here, everyone is on your side, we are all in the same boat.
I am in Australia, but I expect there will be someone near you.
Check in each day, best wishes Caz
joan51826 liz34614
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lynn08926 liz34614
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First of all, I would definitely consider postponing the drinks party. The first few weeks after your op need to be spent looking after YOU.
I think you'll find your hospital will insist you are able to climb the stairs before they discharge you. DON'T be scared by that. It really isn't too difficult.
Now the stockings are a different matter. Such a nuisance, but vital. Hope you have a very patient other half!
How soon you will be walking normally is a million $ question! We all recover at different rates. Maybe by 8 weeks +? but that is not set in stone.
Keep coming back here. We are all a mine of helpful information!
Lynn 19 weeks post op
Django liz34614
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Good luck.
jean95756 liz34614
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i'm 8 weeks post op and just been discharged from Physio
i won't kid you the first few weeks are the most painful
but take your pain med regularly and get as much rest as you can
as for stairs ...they are actually good exercise ...I have steps to get to my house ...steps to get into the house. And the toilet is upstairs... One step at a titime and slowly and you will be fine.
but forgo the drinks party and let someone else take over this year.
all the best with your op.
there's plenty of really good advice on this site from people at all different stages.
jean x
jennifer86104 liz34614
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jean95756 liz34614
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just put plenty of talcum powder on your feet and the socks slide on
liz34614
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I do have help, probably more than most, I have a cleaner who does right through once a week, an ironing service and a gardener, so the general running of the house will be ok. I don't have anyone to help with the stockings, my adult son lives next door, but I certainly don't want to ask him, even though he will be doing a lot for me. Do you think I will need to arrange some sort of care package just for socks etc, it seems a little over the top!! My worry over the stairs is that not only do I have to get up and down them, but I will need to carry a very elderly small dachshund as well, she can't be left on her own and will need to move about with me. Yay, it's all such a hassel, all I want is to be able to walk my big dogs along the beach each day without hobbling on sticks as I am at the moment!! Will this lump of metal really work and allow normal life to return?
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lynn08926 liz34614
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Once home I wore soft cropped trousers and t shirts. Legs must be loose enough to pull up over knee for icing. The cryocuff will be your best buddy. My husband iced my knee every two hours for ten minutes. Reduced swelling and gave pain relief.
Then transferred to wide leg joggers. Fabric should be soft as scar is extremely sensitive.
Lynn 19 weeks post op
britta217 liz34614
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i was in hospital for a week (i am based in switzerland) and took everything bar the kitchen sink with me. anything you need to be comfortable, take it with you. i took my own pillows and blanket and never regretted it. make sure you take slippers with you that you can slip into but you feel stable in as you will be required to walk fairly quickly. as for losing weight, it depends on how you react to all the medication you take. i never felt nauseous, didn't get constipated ... it was business as usual hence no weight loss for me sadly! the dress code question: i couldn't wait to get out of the snazzy hospital gown and into my comfy pj's. "loose" is the way to go as lynn pointed out, you will be needing to pull your trousers up a lot every day.
all the best liz. you will be fine, your hospital sounds excellent. take it day by day and keep us posted on here!