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Just wondering if anyone else is struggling with their emotions post op. I'm 4weeks tomorrow since A&P repair surgery...I'm turning into a right whinge bag, got all upset tonight cos I thought my hubby was off for the next 2 days only to find out he has to work, he does 12hr shifts....fed up of my own company, friends and family all in work!! Probably just feeling sorry for myself. Never had surgery before, is this a normal reaction? ?
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tilley49386 amchatt7
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Hope this helped. Sending you healing hugs
PS in a way crying helped hubby found me red faced hiding in playhouse and couldn't believe he had driven me to this. My plants are planted. Keep smiling
amchatt7 tilley49386
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Sorry for the big rant, just feeling really really down tonight, all I needed was a big hug not another fee hours on my own xxx
Tomorrow wis a new day hey, going to take myself off for a nice slow walk, clear my head xxx
Wish I had a playhouse xxx
tilley49386 amchatt7
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feel free to rant anytime you like. Think sympathy vote definately warn off with my hubby too , now he is going on about things getting back to normal when what he really means is me getting back to all it all while he comes in from work , eats and goes and relaxes playing his computer games. I think we must admit we are to blame for situation we find ourselves in by letting them take us for granted, Yes I did all that years ago when we had kids and I only worked part time. But now we both work full time and the kids have kids off their own. Why am I still doing all the housework and garden work too. No wonder I got the prolapse in the first place. I am going to take my hubby with me to my 6 wek check up because I want him to hear the specialist say that I cant I should avoid heavy lifting for the rest of my life. I caused my prolapse by loosing my temper over some garden rocks that hubby wouldn't move.. had time for games but not stones. We are talking stones over 1 meter tall . Anyway I am going to try and be stronger. I have posted the recovery time Rosiepix kindly sent me , which has more realistic recovery times than my specialists told us which I think is half of our problem as I am sure hubby just thinks I am making it all up to get out of stuff etc. Sorry I am ranting now. When I am feeling less emotional I am going to sit hubby down and ask him to do more housework on a regular basis.
Tomorrow is another day already is here. I find keeping busy helps, been doing lots of de cluttering of my drawers etc, Light work and keeps me busy. Amazing what crap I have kept and how many clothes I had that I never wear. Ha Ha I have nothing to war hardly now and hubby not amused by this.. but I think it's great. One last thing. My specialist sent a letter to my car insurance saying it was ok for me to drive short distances so I can make the local shops. Least I can pop out and regain some sanity.
amchatt7 tilley49386
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Now I'm lying in bed listening to him snoring away, wishing I could just get 1 decent nights sleep...getting more and more p'd off xx
phyl_40063 amchatt7
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It is frustrating but the housework will still be their even if left for a while, my mother in law use to say that after 3 weeks it dosn't get any duster. And hopefully partners will appreciate just how much we really do when it does get bad!
Phyl xx
tilley49386 amchatt7
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