exhaustion
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Please tell me others of you have been so tired it seems that I am ill from something else. I am tired all day then cannot sleep at night, then don't want to get up and go to work. While sitting at my desk I just want to get under it and go to sleep at work.
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Snowbell1975 mjlizard
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I have experienced this among the other peri symptoms. I fall asleep in the car when my husband is driving us somewhere, and right in the middle of him talking to me. I feel so bad and don't want him thinking I am ignoring him. He has been so good to put up me thru all of this. I almost fell asleep at the library yesterday while I was using the computer. How embarrassing.
mjlizard Snowbell1975
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CCinCal mjlizard
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mjlizard CCinCal
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didi0613 mjlizard
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mjlizard didi0613
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mjlizard Guest
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Just joined on today, alreay feeling less alone
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Toddpodd Guest
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I found it a 2pm one night when I couldn't sleep and I haven't looked back. Suddenly I just didn't feel alone and discovered that so many other women suffered the same symptoms. 😀
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Zigangie mjlizard
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I really feel for you ladies who have to work. I don't think I would have coped (I was signed off for bi polar disorder) I had mega depression which was thought to be the depressive part of the illness. I don't think it was because HRT has made it so much better when nothing else has worked.
I still have big sleep issues. I promised to take my daughter birthday shopping today, I did it with no sleep at all last night, walked round like a zombie all day and know from experience that it will make no difference to my sleep tonight and that I will likely be here reading posts at 430am.
I had it so bad in the past after 3 nights of zero sleep I'm a danger to myself and can't drive etc. As a last resort then I have to take Tamazepam.
Yes and feel like you're just coming down with or just getting over the flu all the time and the more tired you are the worse you feel.
For some bizarre reason sleep in the daytime comes easier and these days I can do that sometimes, but when it started in early peri I had to keep going with a daughter to get to school, house work shopping. I could never manage a cat nap for an hour, usually being unable to get to sleep and occasionally falling asleep and not waking until 8 or 9 at night with a hungry and angry family to deal with.
I'm hoping my post doesn't depress you, the point I was going to make is, I feel if someone had wondered in the early days if my problems could have been peri related and tried me on HRT back then I think I would have fared much better than I did.
Also really interesting and exciting for me is the fact that the first 8 nights on estrogen gel I felt tired at 11 PM was sound asleep by just after midnight and woke with a start at 815 am in exactly the way I always would have before peri began. I just wish that had continued but a few weeks later I went through a phase of falling asleep only to wake at between 3 or 430am this has also not happened since a point in early peri. So I'm hoping that maybe an increase in estrogen when I get round to seeing the doctor to ask (worry because I'd rather stay on minimum dose) could do the trick.
Snowbell1975 Zigangie
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I too am waking at 3 or 4am, even sooner sometimes. Once I am up, there is no going back to sleep, no matter how tired I am. This has been going on for months now. Can you tell me a bit more about the estrogen gel? Is it bioidentical gel? How did they tell you to use it? Thanks
Zigangie Snowbell1975
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Mine started odd nights couldn't sleep then a couple of years later waking after a few hours.
Then complete insomnia at first I just thought I'd use the extra hours for myself quiet things making cakes etc.
But it soon starts affecting everything you do.
They gave me all sorts anti depressants anti psychotics, anti histamines cough medicine, always saying this one helps with sleep that one will help.
I tried (you could give some of these a go because they work for some people) valerian root, magnesium, 5htp multi b vitamins melatonin. I gave up caffeine, tried not to smoke a few hours before bed. Tried cannabis occasionally alcohol (I hate being drunk or drugged but things got very desperate)
Zopiclone gave me a disgusting metallic taste in my mouth which worsened to almost unbearable by the early hours.
Diazepam worked but only for 4 hours. Lorazepam the same.
Temazepam works but I'm now so used to it I have to take twice the dose so they don't like me having it.
Alcohol worked but I just seemed to need more and more and feared becoming an alcoholic. I don't really like alcohol luckily. Cannabis made me paranoid.
I had got used to it and asked for HRT because after 2 years period free I was just so hot I had no libido and vaginal dryness so bad it felt like razor blades if I had sex.
So I was gobsmacked when my depression and anxiety lifted this year I had the best Christmas in 10 years. Also 8 nights of perfect sleep did wonders. Improved libido dryness and being too hot all the time.
Discussing with my husband if there is any way I can see a meno specialist if my doctor is not happy to try tinkering with dosages. This is easy to do with oestrogel you could use another one or two pumps and still take the same amount of Utrogestan.
I'm at week 15 on it so still quite early days but I so wish someone had thought of trying me on it years ago when it first started.
I've had a few other improvements, some but not all aches and pains, nausea and a horrible taste also the constant loo trips, these do come on occasionally but more like early peri they come and it's not long until I feel ok again.
Snowbell1975 Zigangie
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CCinCal Snowbell1975
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As for insomnia I'm waking up about 2-3 hours after I fall asleep. Then I take my first Ambien. Then wake up around around 3-4am and take my second Ambien. I hate taking this stuff but I'm non-functional as it is with this severe depression and anxiety. Peri is truly hell.
Snowbell1975 CCinCal
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Please keep me updated on how the estrogen is working for you. I need some relief and hoping estrogen may be the answer. The anxiety and depression is absolute hell in itself not counting all of the other horrid symptoms peri is bringing. I hope you get some relief from it.
tinaarena.1 Zigangie
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Some things got a bit better. I had a horrible metallic taste which changed to more of a lemony flavour but still so annoying. I still felt nausea on and off but not as bad as early peri when I felt like morning sickness all the time and I went off foods caffeine alcohol.
I was able to drink tea again as I had always done but coffee only 2 a day because it started making me so jittery and that didn't help with the anxiety.
Before peri I didn't know what caffeine jitters was it had never really affected me before even if I drank it all day and I always had it strong and black and almost lived on it at one point.
My depression well to be honest I think I just got used to feeling like that and the same with anxiety. I didn't realise how uptight I was all the time until it began to lift along with the depression during the first 2 weeks of HRT.
I was always saying (in my head coz the family were sick of hearing it) Oh I feel so sick/ill/wretched whatever. Then within two weeks on the HRT it was golly I feel so normal.
I went from having not hot flushes but hot days, after my periods stopped that changed to hot weeks then became hot all the time, just cooking on the inside. I went from a sun worshiper to hating the sun hot days etc. I had lived my life being the first to want the heating on and if we went anywhere I'd always have an extra coat gloves and a blanket in the car just in case.
Then I was out mid winter without a coat and wondering if I would need to remove my cardigan.
My lack of libido (I'd say that's an understatement as it became revulsion to sex) and the awful hot all the time were the main reasons for trying HRT.
I'd felt so yuk for so long and was expecting it to go away once I was post meno (I started the HRT almost 3 years after my last period) I really wanted to do it naturally. I had read you are better off going on it sooner rather than 10 years post so I thought I'd give it a try while I was still within t at window of opportunity.
I'd tried loads of medications herbs vitamins etc. But I feel happier taking one thing that deals with most of it rather than several different things that, if anything just take the edge off.
I'm a little nervous but content myself with thinking all women on the pill are taking estrogen and progestins, if I were a male transgender wanting to become more female I would be given HRT at a much higher dose.
Antidepressants especially ssri's increase your chances of a stroke.
Bio identical HRT is a works away from the old horse urine types (the ones used in the trials that were stopped)
Also quality of life has to be considered, these days I don't keep thinking I can't go on line this for the rest of my life.
This is becoming a long post.
To answer your question, does it get better? I think for me the shock of suddenly becoming ill all the time and when all results keep coming back as normal, worrying that the doctors are missing some nasty disease, Hoping to feel better next week next month and then next year made peri seem worse, but I just got used to feeling that way, not a lot changed my periods stopped and I thought well that would be one positive thing, with that came the horrible dryness down below a sort of sandy itchy feeling all the time, I still get that but occasionally which is how it started.
tinaarena.1 Zigangie
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CCinCal Snowbell1975
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Zigangie tinaarena.1
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I always had a chocolate week before my period but after meno was like that all the time.
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