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Extremely Worried

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p04441
p04441

I've been dating this guy for over 8months, 2 years ago I found out that I have gential herpes I've never told anyone because I'm afraid of being judged last night my boyfriend started to go down on me but I stopped him, but afterwards we had unprotected sex and I am having an outbreak does he have it now? What should I do I need answers please

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  • JustMe2017
    JustMe2017 p04441

    Posted

    Hi, I think you should just come clean with him and be honest. I’ve never had to disclose yet but when I do it will be before sex. From what I’ve read it’s just better that way. But since it’s already after the fact I’m sure he will be upset and may leave but more b/c of you not being honest. That’s just something you will have to deal with. But I would just come clean now. If he’s the man for you he’ll stick around after he’s had time to process everything. Good luck and let us know how it goes!! 🙂

  • Guest
    Guest p04441

    Posted

    i dont know how did you keep it for two years, by not telling. well if you are happy with dating, seems you are in love. however you have to tell on him, you shouldn't think only yourself but think also his health. (You can spread love to others in other way, but health of a person is the most important that you can be loved)

  • FelizCastus
    FelizCastus p04441

    Posted

    Sorry, but unprotected sex during an outbreak is very irresponsible. At the very least avoid sex during outbreaks! Who knows if he will get it or not now. Time will tell. Or a test.
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