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Feel let down by friends

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UK-Ven-medicate
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anyone  else feel let down by friends.  I think as life becomes hard some people have become selfish. either not understanding what they are doing or pushing to the extreme and hurting or making them feel bad on purpose.

its a tough old world

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  • jennifer_01212
    jennifer_01212 UK-Ven-medicate

    Posted

    Hello Jimmy I'm jennifer and I just posted about this on my instagtam account. I c I'm not the only one being let down by a friend right. It sucks and hurts all at the same time.
  • elizabeth20203
    elizabeth20203 UK-Ven-medicate

    Posted

    Hello Jimmy, yes i feel the same. I put myself out and feel let down all the time. It's better to not get too close to people, then we get less hurt. 

    Elizabeth.

  • Dondons3
    Dondons3 UK-Ven-medicate

    Posted

    Maybe they're sorry and didn't mean to upset you but if you think this person is so selfish then maybe you should just not speak to them anymore xx
    • UK-Ven-medicate
      UK-Ven-medicate Dondons3

      Posted

      never easy to know how sorry someone is, words are easy to say, showing and meaning it is something else.nobody as such is selfish but we all get absorbed in our own pain sometimes. And when that happens the first thing to go is what others think or care about, especially if there absorbed by the need to do something,  block something out or draw upon the past. The mind is the most powerful organ you have
    • Dondons3
      Dondons3 UK-Ven-medicate

      Posted

      Guess it comes down to trust! You obviously don't think this person is genuine so probably best not to waste anymore time on them xx
  • hypercat
    hypercat UK-Ven-medicate

    Posted

    Hi I wouldn't say that but as life becomes more stressful most folk have a hard time managing their own problems and lives and don't have much left to give to others.   Life is certainly tough,  x

    • UK-Ven-medicate
      UK-Ven-medicate hypercat

      Posted

      I think your right "hypercat" everyone has their own stress and at the end of the day its their own life. Nobody knows anyone better than they know themselves.
  • nick34171
    nick34171 UK-Ven-medicate

    Posted

    It is tough. I don't have many friends really. Just to let you guys know if i'm not answering messages its because physically i can't sometimes , sorry about that, chin up peeps.
    • UK-Ven-medicate
      UK-Ven-medicate nick34171

      Posted

      It's life as we know it. Hope things improve for you Nick I. You got look after yourself, take care of yourself anyway 
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