Hard to be hopeful..

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im too new to all this. It came out of nowhere. First sinus, then dry eyes then what seems like horrid tmj with wackey ear issues. All since decemeber. I was guided to see thenRA and he said i had sicca syndrome and raynaruds and some other glitches. Nothing positive in many of the tests. Just a very few didnt come back good. And noted you manage symptoms. But i am 50 already have other stuff. I have optic nerve pallor from some virus and gerd and tmj. Anyway i never heard of this before and too late now but i am also a 30 year cig smoker on and off and about half a pack. I keep quiting but failing at it. I have quite a few times i seem to have a way harder time as im so uncomfortable with the weird stuff i have now. It makes it wrse. I feel its a lose lose now.Im in america everything in the world is blamed in smoking. Everything. It is despised here more so then anything. That started about a decade back. So if yiu ever smoked at all no oity and whatever happens to you is from that. Theres also no comoassion  for any yoe of  anxiety disorders so its just an interesting place to reside.  This does trigger anxiety. Well my weird symptoms with my ears and spasms and tinnitus of various sorts do. I dont know which forum to even out this in. Im just waiting to die as i cant see a way through all this anymore. That sounds awful but i already messed uo my life from ever smoking. I didnt know. The world smoked and lived normal lives and such. It was so different, i dont even think sjogrens existed either. I never knew all this could happen and i never thought about it, no one did. So i feel defeated. We werent raised or brainwashed on what to fear the way world is now. Anyway,  How do i live with this? Does it wax and wane? IS everyone else so string but me?  Does this cause weird ear issues and bad tmd...i dont  know whats ehat anymore. Need some advice and guidance. Please dont judge me that i smoked i have nowhere else to turn to figure this all out.

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    Lisa, when you are in the thick of symptoms etc it can be hard to be hopeful. I would say take 1 thing at a time. Can you give up smoking? If so, then do it. That will help over time with lots of medical issues. If you simply cant, then move on and dont beat yourself up about it. Tackle the next issue. This does wax and wane for some people. For me, not so much, but when i am dealing with it well it can feel like its waning a bit so thats a plus anyway. Find specialists you can talk to to and who explain things well and with compassion. It isnt the end, but you need to get some control over both some symptoms and your attitude and approach. Its all real, but your mind can positively affect how well you manage.Lots of people here can help you. Dont lose hope.
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      I have to get a grip on all this. This forum is helpful. Still scared im nit there yet but im trying. I think the ds arent so compassionate or helpful i dint always feel they are in my best interest to be honest. I feel rushed and irrelevant.., with exception of my RA and oothamologist he is so kind but my RA is 70 they dont  have MDs like that anymore.  The newer ones are more of a buisness now. Very different feeling. Thank you for your reply. It was very kind.
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    Hi Lisa,

    I too live in the "great" old US of A (I use great VERY loosely) many think that here we should be up on things, not the case. I believe we are behind many countries when it comes to autoimmune health care... I have been sick for about seven years due to my autoimmune diseases. With sjogrens, with my own experience & reading those of others, your blood work does not always have to be either positive or negative to have the disease. Mine is good one time, bad the other but I am diagnosed as having sjogrens & uctd. To get back to some of your questions, when you have an autoimmune disease you can have a mess load of other problems as well. (Most common, TMJ, mouth sores, bad teeth, mouth dryness, ear problems, loss of hearing, eye dryness, gritty eyes, cataracts, loss of eyesight, nose dryness, nose bleeds, loss of smell, dry skin, itchy skin, neuropathy, raynauds, pain in organs, (problems with organs) uti's, constipation, ibs, stomach problems, Barrett's esophagus, gerd, difficult urination, these are just a few of the most unpleasant side effects, which I have them all, as with many others) I too was asked if I smoked (do not, never have) but yes, smoking can cause problems when it comes to having diseases (I am not sure if smoking can cause the autoimmune disease, although docs believe that I developed autoimmune disease by the abundance of surgeries that I had in relatively short periods of time & the stress it caused on my body, as well as some devastating events in my life) I do believe that smoking can have effects on the autoimmune, but I do know that quitting smoking is no walk in the park. Perhaps you can look into ways to help you with your smoking, try cutting down, then weaning off, I have heard there are a lot of helpful ways of doing so. I know it's not a pleasant nor easy process (I have family members who have succeeded) I hope you can find a way to quit... best of all to you, take care... 😊

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    Hi Lisa,

    I'm so sorry to hear you're going through a bad time. Sjogren's syndrome (SS) affects everyone in different ways, but many of us go through a series of flare-ups and remissions. So you won't necessarily always feel the way you do now.

    Concerning the TMJ, as far as I know this is not SS related. There are many causes, and the solution depends on the cause. You really need to see a maxillofacial surgeon about this. They are the experts. (Don't be put off by the word "surgeon" - most of the solutions are not surgical.)

    The sicca symptoms and Raynaud's are, of course, down to SS. Raynaud's is made worse by the nicotine in cigarettes, but it's by no means an exclusively smoking-related condition. I have it too and I've never smoked in my life! Mine suddenly started at age 60, ten years after I had my first SS symptoms. In fact, the appearance of Raynaud's was instrumental in my doctor finally making a diagnosis of SS. In the ten yeas up till then my GP, a couple of dentists and an ophthalmologist had been putting it down to allergy, old age(!) and goodness knows what else. You're actually quite lucky to have got a diagnosis so quickly. Ten years seems to be about par for the course, going from what many posters on here have said.

    I'm sure no one is going to judge you for smoking. However, smoking conventional cigarettes is definitely going to make the sicca symptoms worse, especially the dry mouth. SS can also affect your lungs as it progresses, so you might want to re-think the decision to continue on this basis too. I suddenly started developing asthma at age 70, and my doctor warned me that I was developing the very early signs of COPD, in spite of never having smoked a single cigarette in my life. Fortunately, use of a low-dose steroid inhaler has now brought this under control.

    Why not try gradually phasing out cigarettes in favour of vaping? This won't help the Raynaud's, as it's the nicotine that causes that. However, it's the tars in conventional cigarettes that cause all the lung problems, as well as cancers in other parts of the body. Vaping wouldn't have nearly the same effect on your sicca symptoms as cigarette smoking.

    I volunteer in a mental health centre, and I was having a conversation about vaping only the other day with a young man with severe mental health problems - a group where heavy smoking is quite common. He had been on 50 a day since his early teens, and it had already started taking a toll of his physical health by age 30. He was really singing the praises of vaping. His terrible "smoker's cough" (which is also due to the tars, not the nicotine) had disappeared, and he was delighted at being able to run up flights of stairs again without getting breathless.

    However, there was one thing he said that really caught my attention. He said his nicotine consumption had also gone down since he'd started vaping. It seems that since he's had his e-cigarette, he actually smokes for shorter periods. He said that most smokers don't like to waste a normal cigarette, so will smoke it to right to the end, regardless of whether they really want it all or not. Since he's been vaping, he's noticed that he just pulls on his e-cigarette till he feels he's had a sufficient nicotine hit, then turns it off. He's also noticed the financial effect of this!

    So... stop beating yourself up about smoking, but try to replace at least some of your daily cigarettes with vaping. See a maxfax about your TMJ (which may well be causing your tinnitus as well). Take your rheumatologist's advice about your sicca symptoms. And keep hanging out on this forum, where you'll get all kinds of support and useful advice from fellow sufferers.

    This site also has a number of forums on oral and dental problems, where TMJ and its treatments is often discussed. I know this because I went on there when I wanted some input on a dental problem (not TMJ) that I was having last year. They may also have a specific TMJ board.

    Try and stay as positive as you can. Some of us find this has a big effect on our SS symptoms.

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      Hi Lily

      American doc's would not be happy if someone smoking as little as 10 cigs a day switched to vaping rather than quitting. There are no controls here over the vaping materials and some are at least as bad as cig smoke.

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      Not scary at all Lisa - well, not in my case anyway. I've been let down very lightly by SS over the years. I had long periods of remission in the first 15 years, when I often had virtually no symptoms for a couple of years at a time.

      Admittedly, it's closing in on me a little bit now, but then that's partly down to my age as well. Most of us - whether we have an autoimmune condition or not - find we're not quite as well in our 70s as we were in our 50s.

      It would be quite rare for any one sufferer to get all the symptoms described in one of the posts on here. Most of us just get a few of them. A syndrome is a collection of symptoms. It doesn't mean you're going to get all of them.

      I've had a lot of the different SS symptoms over the years, but I find they tend to go into remission and flare-up at different times, so I never get all my symptoms all at the same time. At age 73, and 22 years after the first symptoms (12 years after diagnosis) I'm not at all disabled by the condition. In fact I'm fitter than some people of my age who don't have any autoimmune conditions!

      The only prescription medications I take are thyroxine, a steroid inhaler and domperidone. The first is for an underactive thyroid, one of the results of SS. Most autoimmune conditions end up nibbling at the thyroid sooner or later, but this is easily fixed. The steroid inhaler is for mild asthma, also the result of SS starting to attack my lungs, but that's been nipped in the bud now. The domperidone is only for occasional use, for acid reflux.

      I've actually had GERD for 40 years now, long before I had SS, so I don't think it's related. I've always managed it by sleeping with the head of my bed raised and avoiding foods that trigger it, so I've never had to go on omeprazole. I just take domperidone on the rare occasions when I've been careless with my diet and get an attack of acid reflux in the night.

      Apart from these, I just use OTC eyedrops for dry eyes and sometimes take ibuprofen for SS-related tendon pain.

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      I didn't know that, aitarg. I know there have been some problems with vaping solutions here in Europe, but the authorities have been clamping down on them lately. The general advice is to go for known brands, which are now strictly controlled, avoiding the cut-price, home-mixed stuff some corner shops are still selling. (But they won't be for long - we're pretty good on that kind of thing over here!)

      Pity they can't get on top of this in the US. Vaping is clearly a poor alternative to giving up entirely, but these days the medical authorities in Europe are beginning to recommend it cautiously to those who absolutely can't stop.

      Fortunately, I've never smoked even one cigarette! Until I was 8, I lived with my parents in one room. Dad smoked 50 a day and Mum 40 - mainly down to the stress of poverty, of course. We got rehoused in a tiny 2-bedroomed house (social housing) when I was 8, which improved things slightly, but by the time I left home at age 20 I figured I'd had enough close-quarters second-hand smoke to last me a lifetime!

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      Hi lily

      I too agree with everything you said to lisalisa67... my doctor did say that my tmj was probably due to my sjogrens (I have severe dry mouth & I have tmj & loss of teeth due to sjogrens) it really is surprising what symptoms & illnesses develop from sjogrens/autoimmune diseases... 

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      Enough smoke, indeed, Lily! My mom smoked, well she lit a lot of cigarettes which she never finished, but it was a huge house and she never smoked in any of the kids' rooms. Windows were open most of the time too, hot coastal texas. I think she would've been very unhappy that her 2 youngest started smoking in college.

      If there were ever any real interest in controlling vaping, it died with the election.

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    Hi Lisa

    You've been hit with a lot of stuff. Each of your conditions can be overwhelming; to be hit with all of them at once is like, Kablam!

    I'm in the States too. I smoked from age 19 - 53, with one 4 year break in my 40s. For the 1st 25 years I smoked a pack a day, but by the end only 4 or 5 a day, tho they were really loooooong cigs, lol. It's been more than 10 years since I quit for good. Your next quit could be your last one so don't give up. Most people quit many many times before the final quit - and then tgere are the weirdos who quit cold turkey. If you have any belief system, turning to that higher power may help when urges hit you. Faith was the only thing that finally worked for me as even the lowest dose patch and lozenge contained more nicotine than i was getting from cigs, thus making me crave more.

    You haven't mentioned any terminal diseases. I'm in my 60s, was diagnosed with Sjogren's in my 30s but probably had it all my life. I have lupus. I've got 2 big lung diseases, 1 of which might be from smoking. I've had a lot of good life since all these diagnoses, and you will, too. But there is an adjustment period. These support groups help a lot, as can in person groups. If necessary, ask for referal to a counselor.

    There are tons of free aids to help you quit smoking in this country. The American Lung Association has toll-free numbers and they're a good place to start. Some States give out patches for free as part of the settlement of the tobacco law suits -- more than 20 years ago. We've known since at least the '60s that smoking is harmful. The lawsuits over precisely that issue began 30 years ago, in the '80s. So if we try telling docs that nobody knew smoking was harmful until yesterday, they will blow us off. They expect us to take some responsibility -- and given what cigarettes have cost for the last 12 or so years, and given the warning on the packages, we do have to accept our responsibility. It will make all your dealings with doctors much easier, AND you can then ask for help on quitting! Some GPs and clinics have free support programs.

    Keep on quitting@

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      You know i never oayed attention to the smoking stuff. They spwere sold everywhere. Everyone smoked everywhere. They had tons of brands and i thought so you be careful and smoke lights. Haha. Thats how they presented it. It was not talked about in my world. At all. Then you know life haooens and you dont focus on that stuff. No need. Now i have a need.I have a lot going on, i bought lozenge's. I keep trying. I need other wtuff happening to me to calm down a bit. Some weird inner ear twitch thing from the tmjd. I thought was anxiety but actually the acupuncturist I tried simulated it.  I do not recommend acuounture with sicca seemed to have caused me more inflammation. And im not buying into healing crisis stuff but they told me to stop as well. Very kind. I used a TCM md and acuounturiest.

      I feel like a goner and i hate to ever say that. Even without smoking. But i took a picture of what you wrote. All true and im in no way denying blame on myself. Not for the auto immune completely but the smoking. I have never been addicted to anything else. Im boring.i dont even drink coffee.  Truely. Anyway, You got a grip and i hope I do one day  as well . I appreciate this response. I appreciate all of them but yours also resonated with me. Shows me hope. I need hope and faith.thank you

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      Yes - smoking used to be considered as normal as breathing, didn't it? I grew up in the 1940s and 50s, when even the doctors thought it was good for you! Women smoked throughout pregnancy too. (Which may or may not account for why my twin was stillborn and I only weighed about 4lb at birth, and had one life-threatening illness after another till I was 8.)

      Once I got to about 15, all my relatives started trying to pressure me into smoking. A couple of aunts and uncles even tried to force lit cigarettes between my lips at parties, convinced I'd like it once I tried it!

      My mum was furious with me for refusing to smoke. She thought it would cut me off from my (lower working-class) peers. And I suppose it did to some extent. My dad just said he was disappointed, but he accepted that smoking was a dirty, expensive habit so he didn't pressurise me.

      When I was working as a nurse in the UK in the 60s and 70s, people were still allowed to smoke in bed in hospital too. And the nurses were allowed to smoke, but only at the nurses' station. The first time I went to a hospital in Belgium (where I've lived for >40 years) was in the early 80s, when I had my first flare-up of RA. Both the doctor and the nurse smoked throughout the consultation! That would be unthinkable these days, in either country.

      It was a funny, topsy-turvy old world in those days, wasn't it?

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      So different in many ways. Some better too. More compassionate then anyway. The world is getting colder and colder. People are face in their phones and desentized now. Yes some technology has been amazing but a lot of it healthwise is protected and restricted for the average person. In America you can easily go bankrupt because you are sick,and they (drs and hospitals) overcharge in amounts that are truely criminal...  no one cares. No consequences. They just make it a buisness and turn the other cheek. Very sad. Very scary. A bit random, but it is just scary to become ill here. They are great in trauma thought. Great with trauma and heart stuff. I

      l say that. There needs to be a balance put into place.

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      lisa 

      lone thing you can always get on here is hope... most everyone on here seems to be caring / compassionate people who are all going through difficult times due to health... we are all in a big boat together & with each other can get through this... you are never alone... Take care🤗

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      Hi lily

      my mother smoked when she was pregnant (she stopped when I was 2/3yrs old) but when I was born I weighed 5lb 3oz & had pneumonia, I almost died... I really believe that health is effected by smoking, I do not believe that smoking causes every health problem one gets, but I do believe it can make things worse... they say it is extremely hard to give up but it's will that makes one stick to it & win the fight...

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