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Hi i'm 18 and dating a girl (also 18) for 5 months now and i'm starting to get like really unnecessary thoughts about her leaving me or inventing that one day we would have to leave eachother because (?).This girl is a strong woman. She is raised like me and is respectful, very honest, cheerful, friendly, funny,... so i cant complain. And this girl is my 3rd relationship wich is also the longest. Previous was 2 months for a girl that left me because simply she isn't into relationships atm (wich is true cause she is already single for about 9 months since she had something with me and is really pretty). So these toughts are not ruining my relationship because i immediately talked about it. Cause the day that it started (3 days ago) i started to say more sweet things than actually doing funny and act like the clown (so just being funny and a little sweet). So I said the reason why I do like this the last day because i'm having these thoughts when i don't have to. She understanded and then told me not to worry because and told me al the reasons she loves me. Recently i met her family and they all liked me at first impression. So now i'm coping with some stress and i don't know how to deal with this toughts. They fade away once we have a converstation via text and talk about all random things without being cute and sweet all the time. But in these 5 months i've never had these toughts. Atm she is the best i ever had and all this time i tought, look how healthy the relationship is, i don't need to even worry because my girl is always doing max effort and she still does but i just don't want to have these toughts.. she sometimes says u better don't leave me and yeah i said that many times but without like to feel sad for a moment..Hope u guys red it Thankyou! It's not that serious of a problem but it's just weird you know.. I always (slightly) didn't give a f about that because it's not gonna happen if we keep the relationship strong like we always do.
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