Hello everybody! Is this herpes!? I’ve been stressed out
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Hello. so here is a breakdown of everything been experiencing.
Friday (Sept. 17th)
I had unprotected sex (One night Stand) with a new person who I have known for a few years. That was the first time we had sex. First person other than partner in 2 years. I didn't get to clean up until 2hrs later because we were "out" when one thing lead to another.
Saturday ( Sept. 18th)
I was very sore because he is much larger than my Monogamous sexual partner. & sex was very rough and lots of friction afterwards.
Sunday(Sept.19th)
Still sore & I also shaved this day, & had sex with Monogamous person.
Monday (Sept. 20th)
I used a toy. It did not hurt.
Tuesday (Sept. 21st)
I had sex unprotected with my monogamous partner. It hurt when we did it, but I thought it was because of Friday and Sunday with since it was the same ache. I made him stop because it hurt too bad.
Wednesday (Sept.22nd)
I started to burn when i pee.
Thursday (Sept.23rd)
1 flat white sore with a red ring appeared. i thought it could be yeast so i used Monistat. It eased the pain but then...
Friday (Sept. 24th)
Bought a one day yeast infection cream because i had discharge with no smell, i also noticed 2 more bumps then. After taking the Monistat I had some excess discharge since.
Saturday (Sept. 25th)
Felt a little ease but still some discomfort when the sores are wiped, when I pee, and when I have pressure on them from sitting and crossing my legs… I’m also very moist and the discharge is kinda clumpy at time, but mostly white and runny.
Sunday (Sept. 26th)
Today a new sore appeared! It wasn’t here at first. It just came today, because I’ve been taking pictures daily of my areas and never seen this one more inside the Vulva. It smells like a moldy, yeasty scent but idk If I just want it smelling like that, because I don’t wanna accept that it’s anything else. But otherwise there’s no smell coming from down there.
Please help you all! I’m posting pics below.
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adrienne82421
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Caitlin_B adrienne82421
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You should go to the doctor and get tested. You are not monogamous anymore. Your partner might be but you are not. You honestly should fill them in on your activities. You are putting them at risk and they should know.
adrienne82421 Caitlin_B
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I did that already filled them both in of my symptoms and that Ive been with them both, & neither are experiencing anything. Both provided their documents for their std tests, but anything can happen between time. One Night Stand was tested in June and my partner and I were tested last month, & everything came back clean. I’m going to the doctor this week. My sores only hurt when rubbed or touched, any kind of way, & when urine touches them. they don’t hurt any other time.
Caitlin_B adrienne82421
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You should get that swabed while it is still there.
L2341 Caitlin_B
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Yes, it does look like herpes.
adrienne82421 Caitlin_B
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I’m supposed to go in Thursday because where I live due to Covid, they’re not doing Walk ins. i Hope that everything comes out ok. Thank you so much for Your input
adrienne82421 L2341
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I've been processing it in my Head that it's herpes. i just hope I'm wrong. i be glad when i can see the doctor to get treated properly.
Caitlin_B adrienne82421
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You are welcome hopefully they can get a swab then.
L2341 adrienne82421
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I hope it's not HSV. It's an annoying but common skin infection. With the proper treatment and understanding partner, you'll have a normal life. You've been honest and transparent with your partners and it shows you are a kind a caring person. Good luck.
adrienne82421 L2341
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I'm hoping it's not too. I’ve been honest with them both and recommended they both get tested. i just wanted to be honest from the beginning with them!. I Woke up today the sores are much smaller,still very sore though when i pee. I've still been taking Probiotics, Using my Yeast infection Cream, and drinking plenty of water. I noticed more discharge today but nothing else changed. & thank your so much for your help too.
adrienne82421 Caitlin_B
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I hope so because they’re getting smaller and if they’re no longer there, can they do any other tests to check for it?
Caitlin_B adrienne82421
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Just blood swabs are better in most cases.
j38439 adrienne82421
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I've somehow had the same symptoms as yours.
I couldn't get them swabbed during my first outbreak as I was on vacation so now I did the blood test and I'm waiting for the results (it's been more than 2 months since the exposure)
But don't worry it's just a skin condition, at first it's too depressing but once you accept that you cannot actually change anything and you have to move forward you will eventually forget about it and you might not (or never) get any outbreaks anytime soon, however bare in mind to be always responsible and go for protected sex and you seem a caring and a responsible one so continue to enjoy your sexual life responsibly and don't worry!
Now I might not have it but I have a feeling that it is gonna be HSV, it's from a new boyfriend (he was the second one in my life and the first one with whom I had unprotected sex) of course when I asked him before the intercourse he told me that he had never had any STDs/STIs but after I got my symptoms he did admit that he had once had some itchy spots and blisters on his penis but very long time ago and that it was during a stressful period for him so he didn't get suspicious and didn't even get them checked! Just to let you know that sometimes people try to hide things and infect people but you are a nice person to keep your partners informed.
adrienne82421 j38439
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Thanks so much for your kind words. They really made me feel better. I’m nervous about my tests and the results but at the same time I’m pretty much preparing for both scenarios whether that’s good news or news that i may be living with this forever. but it could be worse, & for that I’m thankful. I hope your results come back negative and you’re ok. & that’s so true I’m just hoping that me being honest both guys will be as honest if they've had any symptoms before. At least he did give you some honesty.
Loveable97 adrienne82421
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i have a positive hsv and touch wood you're all okay, just get it checked to be on the safe side, but i promise you @adrienne82421, with an understanding and helpful partner (which is what i have currently which makes things 100x better) and proper treatment like @L2341 said, things will be okay!!
keep us updated!