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So I’ve young I’ve been with my bf for about 5 months I feel happy with him but sometimes I don’t feel the same overwhelming emotions that I used to feel. I feel comfortable, and happy but sometimes I feel just nothing not sad but not overwhelming happy is this normal when puppy love is gone? Or have a just lost feeling but if I lost feelings wouldn’t just not be happy at all like I love everything he does but sometimes I think I should feel overwhelming happy like I did when we first got together like (butterflies ect.) but I’ve been hurt in the past and in the past I went from overwhelming happiness to hating what they do with him we went from overwhelming happiness to I still love what he does and his flaws don’t bother me or get to me. I’m just wondering is this true love or am I supposed to just feel overwhelming happiness 24:7 if I’m in love or if he’s the one. Most of the time I’m away from him is when I start to try and think about how I feel then I start to overthink and look up signs I’m in the right relationship and this stresses me more then I can’t feel no feelings but when I’m with him I feel safe and happy but not like when we first got together I also don’t feel happy around my family either so I’m wondering am I just an unemotional person or am I losing feelings forever. And if i think about leaving I cry and feel a lot of pain like it would be a loss not just my time but like he’s so perfect he does everything I love we have common likes everything and if I didn’t love him would I still like what he does or would I probably find things that I don’t like about him and let them get to me if I didn’t love him, I just need to know how marriage and relationships feel bc I’ve never been happy in relationship for a long time and I feel like my fear of being hurt is just makes me doubt myself so I’ll leave like my heart doesn’t want me to love
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