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Hey!l had sex on the 28th with my ex and turned around had sex with my bf on the 3rd and he did nut in me. neither were protected sex. this past Wednesday l've experienced a fever headache and muscle aches. l didnt notice any bumps until friday. l have multiple bumps and an ulcer. did anyone symptoms occur so fast? im lost should l let my ex know as well

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    Hi, the incubation time for herpes can be as short as two days. I'm sorry for your situation but you need to come clean to all your partners. It's the right thing to do. You would want the same thing in return.

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      i honestly think my bf gave it to me. l did express it to him and we both are getting check tuesday . l was going to wait on my results to let my ex know

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      If you boyfriend takes the blood test and come back negative, it means he doesn't have it or that the exposure is recent. Then it would mean it's more probable to be your ex. However, it will always be difficult to know for sure. The best would be to all get tested.

      I'm sure you'll handle the situation the best way. Good luck.

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    honestly thats the same thing that happened with me. I got very sick within a matter of 2-3 days. then the next week i couldnt even pee it burned so bad, i couldnt even sit down.

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