Help! Dr Says it's Not Peri
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Hi Ladies
So today I went to see a new gyno (female) and told her my symptoms below. She said since my fsh is only 7 that I wasn't in peri yet. This is my 4th gyno.
The first one put me on birth control and after 6 months or so my pms symptoms came back tenfold. For various reasons she wasn't the right fit.
The second and third gyno were not very supportive. They rushed in and basically wanted to give me the BC pill before rushing back out. They also said I wasn't perimenopausal because I was still having periods monthly plus because my symptoms were with me all month and not just around my period time.
When I kept telling the second gyno my symptoms, out of frustration and lack of time (only spent 10 min. At appointment) he wrote out prescription for HRT. Then he rushed out the door. When I got home and looked at the prescription it was for the highest dose. When I emailed him, he didn't even remember. And when I asked how I should take them, he said it was up to me since it was experimental. I don't want to start HRT without a good supportive caring doctor so hence the fourth gyno.
The fourth one seems supportive and she wants to check my fsh and hormone levels this next period on day 3. None of the other ones did any testing except fsh. So she seems more thorough. But she is saying BC pill rather than HRT.
After being on this board and having so many identical peri symptoms I'm sure that I'm peri. I'm 47. I feel so confused. Do I keep looking for a new gyno? Do I just experiment and try HRT on my own?
Any suggestions, thoughts would be appreciated.
Some of the symptoms I have:
Feeling generally horrible
Depression
Anxiety
Irritable
Off balance feeling
Fatigue
Doom and gloom feeling
Brain fog
Waking up middle of night warm all over
Forgetful, can't concentrate/focus
Wobbly legs
Nausea
Heart palpitations
Cramping
Nauseous
Overwhelmed with the littlest of things
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maxinecarla CCinCal
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michelle46271 CCinCal
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brendababy CCinCal
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I've tried a few HRTs but stopped them due to the side effects, now I've been on tibolone for 56 days and don't really feel much better, still have the off balance, anxiety, migraine, nausea etc
Stressful life events make all of these symptoms 100% worse, my mum passed in January this year and I feel the grief and sense of loss is preventing me from getting better
I can't stand hearing my sons going out the door to uni or my husband leaving for work, it causes me to take panic attacks and sometimes sit and cry I feel I don't want to be left on my own
Try and start with a low dose HRT it is trial and error but if it dosnt suit you can try something else
I really do empathise with you I know exactly what your going through
Take care and chin up, look forward to better days
Hugs
Brenda
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Amys1313 CCinCal
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CCinCal Amys1313
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sooverovaries CCinCal
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You will probably end up experimenting at some stage out of pure frustration and in fairness to the medics know one knows our body better than us and what suits one definitely does not suit all.
In my experience, transdermal patches are less likely to cause such severe side effects. The only thing to remember is that in terms of progesterone it can stay around in the fat cells etc of your body for a long time, therefore continuous high dose could cause a build up.
Unfortunately the symptoms of too much of either hormone can be very similar to those when you don't have enough! Either way if a prolonged period of worsening symptoms persist it's probably time to change.
I usually have to change approx every 9 months & have had to have progesterone 'breaks' due to my intolerance to it.
The last I had was Tibolone & I don't think it really did a thing!
Just dont them fob you off. They will all recommend this site but it is usually obvious they have never looked at it themselves or they might have a bit more empathy! If you find a good Gyno, make a note of their name and demand to see them. They're like gold dust!
didi0613 CCinCal
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Best to stay on this forum, cause the gynos. will only confuse or make you upset. We all know our own bodies and what is happening to us. It's a shame they all make so much money and don't know squat.
jamie50513 CCinCal
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Marisa02082 CCinCal
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sooverovaries Marisa02082
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Vitamin B6 is great too. I also take a spoonful of Manuka Honey each day, drink green tea & pure pomegranate juice, the latter of which is supposed to help regulate hormones.
Trouble is I'm too ill to work full time now (also have APS & CFS) and cannot afford to buy the entire contents of the health food shop. But plenty of veg & protein doesn't need to cost the earth.
Sacrificing some wheat products could also help to boost energy levels.
I'm glad someone mentioned about potentially over high iron levels as I recently started iron tablets without being tested so will knock that on the head until I'm sure.
I agree with the caffeine thing too, it really doesn't help and I find it makes me more tired & irritable & can prevent a good night's sleep of course.
didi0613 sooverovaries
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CCinCal didi0613
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CCinCal
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I think I'll give it a go once I get the tests all done.
It's scary though starting HRT without a good dr supervising. I'm very sensitive to meds so wanted to be hand held starting this. But guess that's asking too much
Last week I tried the progesterone cream from Emerita from a health store for 3 days and had the worst headache all three days. And that was only 20 mg. So trying 100mg (Prometrium/utrogestan) really scares me.
Thanks again for your responses.